I am not a discipline pacifist. I recognize the use of gentle punishments, the kinds such as writing lines, or grounding, but in my experience and examination of the subject, spanking is greatly superior. Many men who spank their wives would agree. They’d see some of the same strengths that spanking has, and which they’ve been rewarded by, which their wives have in fact been rewarded by, even if they endured hardship to get the good results. The kind of experience many find shameful — a long, hard, bare-bottomed spanking — beats out all the competition.
Needing to face a spanking, and the nervousness it involves, reminds a woman of the seriousness of her bad behavior. The wishing she didn’t have to face what was coming soon, the shame of undressing to be spanked, and getting her bottom blistered, send a powerful message: What you did was serious and wrong. It deserves a real punishment. That was not some little mistake you did. It was WRONG. She wishes right then and there she hadn’t done it. Quietly writing lines does not induce that reaction. It does not present her with the fact, in the clear light of day, that her disrespect or bad behavior is a weighty matter. It is almost blase: a task to take care of. A ritual to perform in an obligatory matter. In contrast, it is a trip upstairs to be spanked by her man that tells her she has really been a bad girl and evil is going to be punished. You are in trouble now.
Spanking is generally more undesirable than pacifist punishments. There may be exceptions. There may be women who look for reasons to get themselves spanked. But in my experience it is the spanking that is far more undesirable, if she needs to face a serious one. By being undesirable it acts more greatly as a deterrent as well. There are alarm bells that will go off in her mind in the future if she begins to consider similar misbehavior again. When she finds herself in the same situation that got her in trouble, she will have a much better memory of what she needs to do. A sore bottom helps her remember. I have seen some behavior turn around immediately after giving my wife the spanking she deserves. Neglected duties are done the next day. Temptations that led her astray before no longer tempt her next time. The undesirable nature of being humbled and spanked hard on the bottom made it a constant reminder to her, and a deterrent. Your guidance will remain with your wife, even when you are not physically present.
The average pacifist punishment does not immediately induce tears, or attempts to avoid the coming meeting for discipline. That’s because they’re really not all that serious. Spanking is. It speaks immediately to the soul of the woman and tells her — you did wrong and you are in trouble. You will face the consequences of your bad behavior. That power is why I regularly see tears from my wife after I explain to her she’ll be spanked, or during the spanking itself. I do NOT see them at other times. She does not weep at standing in the corner. The last time I notified her of a spanking, and explained why I did not accept her excuses, she was in tears, and told me — “I’m so sorry. I’ll never of it again. I promise.” That is the effect a real punishment has in reaching the soul. She knows she’s in trouble and doesn’t want it. Her soul is laid bare. The gentle punishment does not do that.
Spanking further beats out pacifism in how clearly it teaches authority and humility. The strength of the punishment demands a real lowering of the self. It demands the self-humbling of the entire process: facing one’s guilt and one’s fear, needing to undress (not for sex, but to become deeply vulnerable), continuously addressing her man as “sir,” placing her bottom in the air, and experiencing what is to most a shameful punishment. She endures pain under her man’s control until he decides she has learned her lesson. It shows her clearly who is in command — her husband — and shows her clearly her submissive position, in a deep and long-lasting way.
It presents submission in a nutshell. When she is over the knee or over the bed being spanked, she knows whom she is subject to. A fly on the wall would know in an instant who is in charge, and who is subject to him. You will see, just as I do, that the period following the spanking she is most gentle and peaceful to you. She watches her language, speaks with respect, and is also affectionate and warm to you. It is pure tranquility. Spanking more than anything, brings her back to that right place, and often more deeply than before. You think writing lines will do that? Or taking away the car keys for the weekend? A spanking is a lesson in respect like none other.
Spanking your wife is also superior in most instances due to its speed. It takes care of a problem and puts it in the past in a matter of minutes. That could be a few minutes in the corner, a few minutes over the knee, and a few minutes of lecture and restoration after she’s been disciplined. Other forms of correction — and I use others myself from time to time — either take longer, or fail to put things fully in the past. She is not fully restored to submission. She is not so easily deterred in the future. You can spend hours on having her do chores in the house or write lines, and see less benefit from them. Spanking rightly induces nervousness in the wife who faces it coming soon. Yet as soon as it is over, the wrong is forgotten and not talked about again.
There is something in gentle punishment that feels as if the crime has not really been punished. A part of the reason is that it is weak. A part is that it does not instill in the mind that a serious wrong has been done and must be punished. A part is also because few wives go out of their way to avoid mild discipline. Try using mild discipline as a warning, and you will find it is not nearly as effective of the warning of a hard spanking as well. Writing lines has its place. Corner time has its place. Yet they fail to fully accomplish what punishment and correction are meant to accomplish. A spanking does — a belt on your wife’s bottom will let her know deeply that she has done wrong, and remind her who is in charge in her life. It will be something she seeks to avoid in the future, and which helps her watch her behavior. I’ve explored other methods and never seen anything reach my wife as deeply as a spanking. It helps her do her very best to be good.
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