Tag: زوجة خاضعة

  • Discipline Description: Lateness Does Not Pay

    I’m surely not the only husband who has given spankings for coming to bed very late. While I don’t have a strict standard, my wife knows the routine for getting the children to bed, and for getting to bed herself. If there is some unexpected emergency, naturally she can come to me and let me…

  • Submitting When a Husband Has a Disability

    It will eventually occur in nearly any marriage that old age will take effect, and the mind will become worn, and at time confused. Mental problems, along with physical disability, can create unique challenges in how a man leads his wife, and how she submits to him. To a degree this can be worked around,…

  • When He Wants to Take Her the Back Way

    When discussing sex in submission I’ve mostly written much on what a man should do, or can do, in using sex to teach his wife submission. I’ve gotten into a number of specifics physically. I also have to bring up a few things he should not do with her, and this includes taking his wife…

  • Practicing Your Roles Before Marriage

    While it is important to be agreed on the use of discipline before marriage, it is equally important to be able to see that your future spouse is prepared to lead if he is the man, and to follow if she is the woman. There are many ways to do this, despite the fact we…

  • An Obedience App

    A reader recently mentioned to me that he uses an app to manage discipline with his wife. The app helps remind her of her responsibilities, and it also tells what the punishment is for each infraction. He has had a positive experience with the app, and thinks it could help couples with their marriage system.…

  • Managing Your Wife: Responsibilities and Procrastination

    Surely one of the commonest areas that wives need their husband’s guidance is in taking care of their responsibilities. He is going to decide on what some of them are, and he is going to give her some rules in getting them done. He’s going to set some deadlines with matters. Dismissing her responsibilities, and…

  • Reader’s Poll: Have You Found Spanking More Effective?

    Please answer in the comments: Have you found spanking to be more effective than non-spanking forms of correction? How so? Our previous polls: Spanking Polls for Readers: https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2020/11/25/spanking-polls-for-readers/ When do You Spank?: https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2021/01/13/readers-poll-when-do-you-spank/ How Does Being Spanked Affect You?: https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2021/04/20/readers-poll-how-does-being-spanked-affect-you/ Who Do You Know Who Spanks?: https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2021/10/30/spanking-poll-who-do-you-know-who-spanks/ What’s the Most Common Infraction?: https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2022/05/13/poll-whats-the-most-common-infraction/ Why Did…

  • Spanked for Speeding

    Occasionally I have to give a spanking for something I never thought I would have to. I trust my wife in her behavior, although I know a few of her common weaknesses. I rarely have to worry about anything else. It saddened me then to learn she had gotten a speeding ticket, and with children…

  • Managing Your Wife: Rules for Apparel

    This is Part 4 of a series on Managing Your Wife. This series already includes sections on handling finances, emotional outbursts, and eating and health. I have written briefly before about setting standards for a wife’s apparel in the context of good rules to start with early in marriage. It is imperative to establish a…

  • The Number One Thing I Hear from Readers

    I regularly have conversations with readers who are interested in having discipline in their marriages, or who already have it. I work with some of their problems, and do my best to help guide them to overcome any obstacles. I help prepare them for marriage in the future. I hear their complaints and suggestions. However,…

  • Reader’s Poll: How Did You Introduce Discipline?

    Welcome to another Readers Poll. You can give your answer in the comments below. When you introduced discipline to your marriage, how did you bring up the topic? If you have not married, how do you plan to? You can find most of the articles here divided by general subject matter at the About Page.

  • The Art of Bent Over

    I’ve written about possibly the most loved spanking position — that of over the knee — and I want to discuss what may be the most common position, and also beloved by many. That is the position of bent over, in all of its many wondrous varieties. Spanking positions do not change anything substantial about…

  • Description of a Discipline with Resistance

    One thing you must know is that at times you will give spankings for things which are a judgment call. What amounts to bad attitude, or disrespect is not always so clearly defined, so men will be the ones to clarify the matter, and punish when necessary. I don’t worry too much about judgment call…

  • Problems You Have without Discipline

    Casual readers who hear about wife spanking are often quick to jump on potential problems with it. Even if they are generally accepting, they seem sure that someone’s going to do something wrong, and the practice is fraught with physical or emotional peril. This is a great exaggeration of course. But it also stems from…

  • Instrument Ratings

    There is only so much to say about the instruments used in spanking. I have given a general overview of instruments before, and written a number of different instrument highlights, including on the belt, the paddle, the loopy, and the cane. I’ve written on hand spanking before as well. I write this piece as a…

  • Managing Your Wife: Eating and Health

    This is Part 3 in the Managing Your Wife series, which has dealt previously with emotional outbursts, and finances. It is almost a stereotype that after a couple has been married for some years, the wife balloons up in size, and makes herself quite unattractive to him, and quite unhealthy. You don’t have to look…

  • Repeat Spankings

    The idea of a husband spanking his wife several times in short succession seems on the surface a bit extreme. Often our first thought is that one punishment only deserves one spanking, or that having two in a row could be dangerous. With those limited ideas it seems superficially radical to be giving a spanking…

  • Description of a Discipline for Bad Mouth

    My wife and I walked into our quiet apartment after our trip. Coming home from about a week away, we took time to put our bags down, and put away a few of the more important things. We talked on the couch a few minutes on our trip and about the coming  day. Then I…

  • Description of a Paddle Discipline

    This article describing a paddle discipline I’ve given could easily be called a description of a serious, or a harsh discipline. That’s because in our home I keep the paddle for the more serious kinds of punishments, for the worse offenses. In other homes, the paddle might be the normal mode of punishment, but I…

  • Description of Discipline for Lateness

    One of the earliest lessons for my wife to learn when we married was to be responsible with showing up on time. She knew this was important to me, but she had been raised without a lot of care for being punctual, and her peers weren’t much into it either. Getting her out of the…

  • Description of Discipline for Arguing

    It is not common that my wife is argumentative with me, and occasionally if she starts, I can let her know she should not continue, and she listens carefully. Rarely, I have to punish her her for arguing. Her recent discipline happened because she persisted in arguing with me in front of the children, over…

  • Description of a Discipline Session

    Let me give you a review of a recent discipline session I had with my wife, and which was very successful. As I sometimes do, I used it to correct her in several areas, in large part because I didn’t have to time to address each individually. That is my own fault. I disciplined her…

  • Spanking Instruments: Making Music Together

    Most people have an idea how to administer a spanking, as well as what tools they might use, whether just their hand or a spanking instrument. I’ll just take the time to go over which tools I use, and mention a few more which are popular. When we deliver a spanking, most disciplinarians use an…

  • How to Introduce Spanking in Your Marriage

    I introduced discipline into my marriage from the start. That means I explained discipline to her before marriage and while we were still going out. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. It was important for us to discuss the nature of marriage, and we were both agreed on the man’s role as the…

  • What Does a Spanking Sound Like

    Since much discussion is given online about the nature of spanking, its instruments, its purposes, its methods, I want to help the reader by showing what a good spanking sounds like. Not the sound of the instrument, but the spanking lecture which is always present when I give punishment, and when most others do as…

  • Crime & Punishment: What to Spank For

    For those who have never used real authority in the home, or established rules, it may seem odd to have them, and not clear on what you enforce. This is natural to being unfamiliar, not just with spanking, but with headship and discipline in general. I’m not going to get into all of the standards…

  • Spanking in its Rightful Place

    It seems for both those who are interested in spanking and those who are disinterested in it, there are common misunderstandings about what spanking in a relationship is really about. These misunderstandings can lead one to greatly misuse spanking, or to wrongly dismiss it as a pointless practice. I want to clear some of that…

  • Welcome and Learning Discipline

    Welcome. This is a website devoted to teaching marital discipline, or wife spanking as some call it. I hope to provide advice, instructions, and knowledge about how to use spanking in your marriage relationship. I will draw from personal experience and many years of using discipline in the home, but it is not a personal…

  • Why Use Discipline?

    I want to expand on what I mention in my introduction — why do I use domestic discipline and why do I recommend it to others? Or to drop the contemporary lingo, I’d like to explain why it’s good to spank your wife. I want to get into the benefits. Let me talk a little…