Tag: count strokes

  • Reader’s Poll: Spanking Rituals

    What rituals do you use during your discipline session? I will use 1, 2, 3 (some of the time), 4, 7 (a gag sometimes), 9, and 10 (if I am spanking her OTK I always pat my leg a few times before she gets into position)

  • What to Think about While Getting Spanked

    The act of getting spanked is a trial in some ways, and some women are not sure what to think about when they are going through it. There is a natural instinct to steel oneself for the pain. One might try to take the mind elsewhere to mentally escape the strokes which will surely hurt,…

  • When to End a Spanking

    One of the most common questions about giving a spanking is when to end it. Even men who are experienced in giving a spanking often simply make a judgment call. Those who are new beginners have less of an idea, and will benefit from sound advice. They naturally do not want to give one which…

  • Discipline Practices I Do NOT Use, and Ones I Discourage

    Husbands who have been leading in discipline for even a short while learn that you are making decisions from early on in building your discipline system, and in how you spank. You learn from trial and error, from imagination, from hearing from other couples and their unique practices. Over time you develop your accepted standards,…

  • I’m Counting on You!

    It’s almost a stereotype in spanking to imagine the person being spanked counting out the strokes, one at a time. Perhaps repeating — I will not [fill in the blank] ever again, sir. This fits in with the notion that every crime receives a certain number of strokes, the unfortunate receiver would find out the…