This is another guest article by Mark, a husband who leads his home and spanks his wife. Since the topic is a form of punishment I have never had to use — soaping out the mouth — it is best that another experienced husband write it. I hope you enjoy his perspective and advice.
As long as I’ve been practicing domestic discipline, I’ve believed that my wife’s behavior can be corrected through a good old fashioned over the knee spanking. However, I’ve also learned that other punishments can really enhance a discipline session and almost always in conjunction with a spanking, produce positive results. I’m a strong supporter of making a wife stand in the corner before, after and sometime during a spanking. I will also often give my wife lines to write after a spanking. Both of these punishments have proven to be effective in teaching a lesson. Granted my wife does not fear these punishments as much as a spanking, but she has confirmed several times how much she despises them for various reasons.
One punishment I’ve come to use sporadically over the years is giving my wife a mouth soaping. Before I discuss technique, it is important to explain when I might use this very unpleasant punishment. It’s actually very simple, when something comes out of my wife’s mouth that shouldn’t have. The list is not exhaustive and can be used for swearing, back talk, disrespectful behavior, lying and even gossiping. These are all behaviors that I have clearly explained are inappropriate to my wife. She know if she does any of the above mentioned that I will give her both a spanking and a mouth soaping.
Before attempting to give your wife a mouth soaping, I can’t emphasize enough the importance of safety when choosing soap to use for this punishment. I use Ivory soap only (once I used Dove because of urgency issues and it was fine). You want to use a non scented, non glycerine type. Don’t worry about the taste, I guarantee you it’s awful. Hand soap or hotel bars are generally not recommended. Hotel bars are too small and hand soap usually has an aroma.
So you’ve given your wife clear warnings on what is appropriate to come out of her mouth and you’ve stocked up on bars of soap and your wife mouths off to you, where does mouth soaping come into the picture and how do you administer this?
There are three basic methods I use, depending on the infraction.
1. Scrub her mouth clean. I will have run a bar of soap under Luke warm water for about 1 minute with my wife washing. After a minute, there is quite a bit of lather. I then order my wife to open wide. If she fails to do so, plug her nose with your hand and this will force her to open her mouth. I then scrub her mouth clean with the dampened bar. Make sure to rub the bar over every area of her mouth as you want her to clearly taste the soap so she’ll think twice about committing the offense. Do this nonstop for about two minutes, fast and furiously. Your wife will have soap everywhere in her mouth by the end of the two minutes. You may then choose to continue spanking her or stick her in the corner. You may or may not allow her to rinse her mouth out before moving on to the next punishment. Even after a good rinsing, the taste will linger for several hours. Just like a very sore behind is conducive to your wife’s growth and learning, a soapy mouth can do wonders.
2. Have her hold the bar in her mouth for a extended period of time. While this is slightly less severe, it is very humiliating and produces shame quite readily. I will dampen a bar for about ten seconds until I see the water to moisten it nicely. I will then order my wife to open wide. Again if she is stubborn, plug her nose and she will obey. Insert the bar into her mouth with at least 50% of the bar going in. Tell her she must hold the bar in her mouth until you say otherwise. I find 10 minutes is about standard, but use up to no more than 20 minutes.
I will always then proceed with putting her over my knee and spanking her or make her stand in the corner. Both work very well with a mouth soaping.
3, A combination of the two. I can think of only two occasions where I have done this, both were quite a while ago and were well deserved as they were what I considered serious infractions. The first was when my wife swore at me and the second was when she gave me attitude at a wedding in front of several friends. Not a good idea!
Now for the more serious infractions I tend to give the mouth soaping at the beginning of a session so the taste lingers. For less serious offenses, at the end.
Mouth soapings are a very powerful and effective punishment to use on your wife and I strongly recommend giving it a try if the situation arises it. By using the correct type of soap and proper technique, you’ll be surprised how deeply submissive your wife’s mouth will become. Trust me, my wife hates them almost as much as the spankings I give her. The first time will be challenging and I recommend starting with option 2. Eventually like spankings, you’ll become more confident and skilled in the method and you’ll have another method in your toolbox.
Just remember: 1. Choose a safe brand of soap, only use a full size bar. 2. Decide which infractions will result in this punishment, and let your wife know 3. Use this method in conjunction with a sound spanking and standing her in the corner. 4. Make sure your wife gets to see how she looks in either predicament so that she can experience shame and regret. 5. Follow through. Just like spanking her, do what you say you’ll do.
You will be pleasantly surprised with the results. …
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