I can never stress enough how helpful intimacy is in heightening a husband’s leadership and a wife’s submission. It helps the partners to learn it better, and it helps a wife sustain and deepen her submission to her man. It even takes her through some of the release and the softening that a spanking over her man’s knee provides. It instills in her the caring power he as over her. His watchful eye. His ability to break down any resistance she may have. One tool you cannot ignore in teaching sexual submission is the use of simple commands. If you train your wife early to respond to your use of simple commands, you will see her bloom into gentleness quickly, and will never regret it. She will be a sweet flower in your hands. If you never have used them, you should start right now.
I keep sexual commands short and simple. I do not believe it ought to require much thought or deliberation. It should not require too much memorization. Your verbal reigns need to be a few words she is familiar with, and can immediately respond to. They become a way for you to exercise your command, and for her to embrace her submission, and get used to losing any resistance to it. Those words remind a woman of her man’s complete possession of her inside and out, and become an exercise in following his will and bringing him pleasure. She learns to serve him immediately.
One command every husband should know is — take off your clothes. You may also want to make it shorter than that — strip. A woman learns to undress at her man’s words, learning to be made fully vulnerable to him, fully visible, and showing him the beauty that she shows to him alone. He may only want to gaze at her, but she should be excited to feed his eyes with her beauty. She should hunger for his command. She must remove any barrier between her and her husband, her body and his. She does so at his command, for she is his. It is the same flesh he will make love to. The same body he will see every morning. The same form he will bare when he disciplines her. He looks over her body as he looks over her soul. She knows he is her ruler as she undresses. He is going to do as he pleases.
A husband gazes on his wife’s body as a king who surveys his land; who looks over it, rides through it, learns all of its features and its resources. He searches out anything hidden within it. Like the king, a man surveys his wife not merely for the enjoyment of the sunlit hills, or the fragrance of the woods, but for all he will do in governing it in years to come. In using the lovely terrain for its ultimate purposes. The man possesses her body not only to enjoy his pleasure with her flesh, but also to receive her many services, her many blessings, and the fruit that will come from her womb — the children of their love. The purpose of the land he gazes on runs from the present far into the future, in producing seed, and raising children up to know the Lord. They carefully and lovingly train them in virtue, blessing generations of believers and unbelievers. He possesses her, he has his way with her, and he uses her for her greatest purposes.
As a woman strips for her man, she reveals all these things to him, revealing all she is. I am yours. This all belongs to you. Use me fully for your will.
The second command I recommend you train your wife in is — get on your knees. There are few other words that so express that one person is subject to another. That one rules above another. Your wife should hear this regularly from you, and come to express her submission this way. It is the right response to coming before the king. Kneeling almost immediately instills on the soul a sense of humility, as well as a sense of respect, if not awe for the person before you. At the minimum, you know they are the one in authority. You are under that authority. You are there to serve them, and your attention is on them showing honor. It says all you need to know physically and visibly.
Many husbands will have their wife also express sexual submission on their knees. They may have their wives follow through and give them oral pleasure, since it is an easy way to express submission in that position. Others will simply have her grow accustomed to being on her knees, as an exercise in obedience. She simply needs to give up any pride or any autonomy to get on her knees. You may also choose to use that time on her knees as a chance to instruct her in her role, or to have her verbally affirm it to you. She may have to express her belonging to you, and your authority over her while kneeling. It will become more natural to her to kneel at other times as well, such as when you give her a spanking, or a verbal correction. Since her daily life toward her husband is one of following his lead, having her kneel helps her get used to your lead, and being in the subject position. Kneeling is a lesson that will speak to her inside, and make her regular submission to you easier.
Lastly, its a good idea to teach your wife to respond to — bend over. You may be behind her when you say it. You may be across the room. By learning to bend over for you on command, she expresses another very submissive position. It is a position used all the time when you take her in bed, and also when you correct her. She is bent over for either activity. Her mind will remember all it is connected to as her bottom goes up and her head goes down, perhaps with deep warmth or trembling inside. It is also immensely vulnerable and sexual. She offers up her bottom to you, as well as easy access to her sex. She makes them visible to you. She lifts them up for you to look at, touch, and have your way with. She gives up a great deal of control in that position as well, as she may not even see you behind her, and her arms are nowhere to protect her from your grasp, or even to touch you. Her most vulnerable parts are in a completely passive position. She knows you have the control.
You may have her bend over just to grow accustomed to responding to your words. You may enjoy the sight of her, and her upturned cheeks, her peeking sex. It could be a quick lesson in discipline for her as you smack her cheeks a few times and remind her she’s your woman. Her butt belongs to you. More than likely, you will take her in this position, playing with her sex, or entering her only to let her feel you deep inside. A woman who must bend over on command knows her man opens her up at will. He may spank her at will. He completely has his way with her. Even if you do not use her position as a chance to make love, you can choose to simply open your woman with your hands for a minute or two. It will help her learn to give her self fully. It will help her drop any resistance to submission. You possess your wife’s body, use it as you desire.
I’m sure many husbands add to those three basic commands. I believe they’re enough to start with, and that if you add, don’t add much. Natural human responses are simple and primal. They are not intellectual. They are not odd or complex. Many husbands add a variety of other sexual positions, and these can be helpful in her learning. A wife should certainly hear — put your hands behind your back — more than a few times. When a wife is learning to respond easily to your sexual commands, and with delight, she will learn to follow you more easily every day. She is learning inside to embrace, and fully enjoy the power that you have. It is sinking into the fiber of her being. She is learning to give deeply, selflessly, without resistance. Like any form of intimacy, she is drawing closer to you, and you to her. You learn to move together as body as soul. Your wife should be a valuable and beautiful treasure to you. Use her for all that she is.
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