The average use punishment seems to include positions which face a wife down, and place her bottom up, making an easy presentation of it to her husband. She goes over his lap, or bends over. She is facing away, or downward. Only her back and the soft target of her bottom are before his eyes. Less commonly, a position on her back is used, one which completely reverses the order, and gives him a look at his wife from the front, while equally presenting her bottom to spank. The common term for this is diaper position, since it mimics the position a baby takes in having his diaper changed. The wife is on her back, lifting her legs up, and taking her knees up to her belly, or her legs stretch up even further. From those who use it, they favor it above other positions for a variety of reasons.
While any spanking position includes vulnerability, as it does nakedness, a position on her back can seem more vulnerable still. The man can gaze at her body, easily seeing her face, her breasts, and her sex. She shows to him the gentle parts of her that do not get spanked, along with the bottom which does. Her sex, being visible and open, presents a further vulnerability, as he is delivering strokes so near to its tenderness, she can feel the vibrations there. He can further easily touch it should he desire, leaving nothing out of bounds of her discipline. That vulnerability comes with an extra touch of fear, fear at her soft spots being struck, and fear of her husband seeing her pain and humbled expression on her face. The sight of the rod or the strap in his hand adds to this, as she is not turned away, but must see as he prepares his strokes, and brings them down on her waiting backside. He is in control. She is helpless.
The sight of her face itself adds to the vulnerability, as well as to the connection between them. It can aid the communication, and the verbal lesson given, as the man is free to look her in the eye with ease, and she must look at him. The wife who is bent over, can in a sense shed her tears more privately, and cry out in her own little space. But positioned on her back, her tears and cries are in the light, before her husband. She knows each cry of release, and each word of sorrow are directed right to him, and he sees her being humbled more intimately this way. He watches each moment as her pride breaks down, and she professes submission. He sees her wince, and grit her teeth. Should she plead with him, this is face to face. He looks her in the eye as he tells her — You are my woman and you better learn your lesson. That butt belongs to me. She communicates her sorrow and her submission to his face, pouring out her heart to him — I was wrong. I won’t do it again. I’m sorry. I’ll be good next time. Please. The lecture, and the intimate back and forth, being face to face allow them to commune deeply. There is nothing to be hidden. All is in the light.
An added characteristic of this back position is that it can accentuate the pain of a spanking. The muscles being stretched out more, and the skin being stretched out more, leave less of a shield against the stinging blows. The bottom and thighs are more sensitive. Pain seems to increase and the heat reach more deeply than in other spankings. Marks are left more easily on the skin. If her legs are open more than a little, as well as raised, the inside of the thighs are presented as easy points to leave burning stripes, inviting more of a blistering than usual. All of her sensitive spots are open.
Men and women both testify this position can be at times more effective than others. Many couples never use it. Others make it their norm. There may be some variety in how a wife is placed, or precisely how her legs are bent, or her knees rest, but it does not make great difference. Despite the vulnerability a wife feels, she still participates in her correction, lifting up, or holding tight to her legs. She is making that helplessness her own. The woman on her back watches the strokes come down, seeing when and where each one will arrive. She sees her man raise back his arm, swing it down, and the instrument land and lash at her flesh. She continues to offer herself up in the most intimate way every second she watches her chastisement.
One note for safety in giving the spanking is that a man take special care not to strike her sex, or her tailbone. He should use an instrument he is very able to finely control. The woman also needs some self-control, because if she squirms, that may result in kicking. Not only does kicking get her out of position, but she could accidentally strike her husband. She will need extra care to maintain position, and it may help for her to hold onto her own legs tightly. While the woman is being disciplined, the man is also trusting in her to hold her position.
I don’t give positions a great deal of weight in giving an effective spanking. However, the choice of one position over another can still be advantageous, and it will also affect what instrument is best used. Some positions come across as forging a more personal bond, and others seem more formal. The position on her back, with everything in full view, face to face, seems by nature most intense, nurturing her vulnerability and helplessness. It can aid in the communication of words and sentiments, so necessary to that bond. A wife provides her most personal side to her man, not her back. His chastisement then reaches her deepest person.
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