I’ve written before on reasons women love getting spanked, and I’d like to similarly discuss why men like spanking their wives. I felt more compelled to write the first article, because to many people it’s counterintuitive that women love to be spanked, and it’s assumed they would never want their husbands to tell them what to do, much less punish them over their knee. Who would want a painful experience? It called for an explanation more urgently. However, while it seems intuitive to some that men like to spank women, the subject still deserves to be probed. Many men would never consider spanking their wives, and others would simply be too afraid to. It shouldn’t be assumed that men want it, but it still is in their wiring, and most are capable of being fulfilled by it.
Spanking a woman is satisfying to men in part because there is something satisfying in seeing a proud or rebellious person humbled. There is an innate sense of justice. There is a clear understanding this is deserved. A man finds it satisfying to know his wife has returned to being meek, after being mouthy, and is in a position to accept authority rather than reject it. Her raised bottom alone says — I am sorry. I confess. I was wrong. Her tears say — I should never have ignored what you told me, or pretended I was in charge. Her stripping off of clothes say — I was wrong to push you off. I belong to you. The stripes she receives will balance out her bad behavior, and make the offense go away in his mind. He is rewarded knowing that the strapping he is laying on is being given to a lady who fully earned it. Seeing a criminal caught and punished brings a just sense of enjoyment, and putting a wife back in her place in marriage does the same, but does so right alongside that intimate knowledge only marriage can bring.
Just as a spanking makes a woman feel more deeply submissive, giving one to his wife makes a man experience his own power more fully, being directly and clearly in charge. Spanking a woman is far more fulfilling to his headship than a simple discussion, and much more so than punishing her with grounding. It’s clearly a better expression of his manhood than having to negotiate with his wife. The man embraces the authority he has and exercises it over her. He knows he is the king. His wife is kneeling. He places her in the position he desires. He has his way with her with hand, belt, or paddle, and she needs to accept it fully in submission. She needs to receive his lecture, and his spanking, until he sees fit. She may not resist. His authority is expressed in his words of correction, as he tells his bent-over lady — “I am not going to accept that behavior from you. That was absolutely out of line, and you are getting what you deserve tonight.” His hand directly expresses his authority with strength, as her bottom yields to it, and her lips profess her submission. Very little in life exercises authority as clearly as placing the wife over the knee and spanking her bare bottom.
Men like spanking because it restores the order in marriage, and keeps his woman quieter and gentler. Problems or conflicts that bubbled up are dissipated, offense or anger become nonexistent. She more conscientiously serves him. Just as the wife’s guilt disappears, so does a husband’s offense and wariness of her. He does not have to worry while being around his own wife. He does not have to expect attacks or disrespect. She is his. Many couples will tell you of the quiet and closeness that exist between man and wife after a spanking. Any couple can enjoy that. Marriage does not have to be a string of arguments, or petty put-downs, and that’s not what it’s designed to be. A man who has spanked his wife knows he will have peace to come, and he more deeply enjoys seeing his wife, in her manner, her eyes, her beauty. He appreciates her more. She is returned to gentleness by his correction, and this shows through peace in the home. Men enjoy the fruit of peace after they have calmed the storm.
The intimacy inevitably connected to spanking is attractive to men, just as it is to women. The masculine and feminine elements touch on each other powerfully through discipline as they do through making love. His wife’s body is on view, and he can take all the time he likes to see it. Her body is his to place in its right position, or to touch as he chastises her. She may be resting upon his lap, as he feels her warmth, or bent over at the waist, for him to enjoy as he chooses. She may take some of the same positions for being spanked as she does for sex. Her bottom is on display, one of the most sexual parts of her body, and at times her sex is also on display. Even more so during a spanking, than during sex, she expresses her submission physically, receiving the stings of the strokes as her means of giving herself to him. She is giving her body to her man. She releases cries and groans in response to his hand. Any man would enjoy the totality of her giving as she gives him her body during correction.
The practical effects of regular discipline please men. Even men who are skeptical at first are appreciative of spanking when they see bad habits and bad behaviors disappear. Her arguing diminishes. She doesn’t put things off forever, or refuse to do her work. Bold disobedience becomes nearly unheard of. His wife, marriage, and home are protected against many attacks of the enemy. Men see the difference quickly, and even family friends see the difference when they visit. He also knows that when future transgressions arise, he has a means to correct them, and return his wife to the right attitude. He will manage any storm. These things all add to a man knowing the authority he has in marriage, and living that headship to its fullness. Thus, he better manages her day to day, finding her soft to his touch, and more responsive to gentle words. In short, spanking is a successful tool in his hands.
It should be no surprise then that spanking has an allure for men as it does for women. When they take their wives in hand this way, they nourish their wives, and aid their own leadership. They gain practical benefit too, as they cleanse the wife of some of the worst of her behavior, and make the home a place of joyful relationships, and protected from the storm which seeks to destroy it. The man fully and deeply steps into his authority. He can know the satisfaction of giving correction, through bringing justice, and enjoying the beautiful sight of his wife. He can see something right in the world as a wife kneels in honor and service before her king.
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