Spanking Instruments: Making Music Together

Most people have an idea how to administer a spanking, as well as what tools they might use, whether just their hand or a spanking instrument. I’ll just take the time to go over which tools I use, and mention a few more which are popular. When we deliver a spanking, most disciplinarians use an instrument. I find “instrument” is almost a cutesy word, since it is used in music as well. In that case, anything you will find to spank with is a percussion instrument. I suppose the lady will be providing the other instrument, the wind instrument, with her mouth as you spank her. It will be just percussion and voice for making music. A rare combination, but very special.

Your choice of instrument is not purely superficial or a matter of personal taste. The instrument will affect what position you will want your wife to be in, whether over the knee or bent over, as well as how severe a punishment you will give her. It also affects the amount of sound you make, which is a concern in most homes. Certain instruments couples generally keep hidden, since they are specifically made for punishment, and in our society this practice is a private one. Other spanking tools are household items, alternatively used for punishment purposes. These you can keep anywhere, and visitors will likely be innocent of your use of them.

I believe most who practice domestic discipline would list hand spanking as one of their favorite methods. Hand spanking is more personal than using a tool of the trade, it forms a good warm connection, and almost provides some comfort in an otherwise uncomfortable situation. The spanker also enjoys the hand both for the personal connection, and because it’s always pleasant to feel his wife’s backside. For some women, being hand spanked reminds them of being a child and makes the a bit more childlike. This aids them in being soft, coming to tears before their husband, and feeling real regret. Despite being a favorite though, you will find that many who spank do not use it too often. That is in part because you may need to be quiet, and a hand on a bottom will make some noise. It is also because you probably won’t be able to deliver the harsher variety of spanking when needed because the hand is too soft for that. That’s one reason why I don’t use them often these days, although it was a regular for me many years ago. Most of my spankings need to be harder than that, and most need to be quiet.

One instrument I used long before I was married, and still occasionally use today is my belt. You will find this is a preferred instrument among many heads of home also, because of its look, feel, and sound. I have always made sure I own at least one large, thick leather belt. Other belts might do okay, but a heavy, thick leather belt is the best. I am almost always wearing one. As an instrument the belt is not the most severe, but can deliver a strapping to be feared if used with strength. Spanking with a belt often involves ritual, as spankings generally do. I am probably not unique in that I have my wife remove it for me when she is to be chastised with it. I may have her wear it as she stands naked for corner time. Then at the end of her discipline, she needs to put it back on me.

Using a belt also affects the position you spank in, as its difficult to spank over the knee with anything that swings like a belt does. Even doubled over, which is how I use it, the angle is not right, and the strike is not evenly distributed. Usually if I use the belt for correction, I have my wife kneeling on the end of the bed, or bent over the end of it. That way I can stand a little bit away from her and have plenty of room to swing, strapping hard, and covering her whole bottom. An instrument like a belt, since it is not made uniquely for punishment, is always one you can have around openly. Moreover, it is one you always have with you since you wear it wherever you go. The belt becomes a reminder to your wife of your authority, as well as a warning of what could come with disrespecting you. It is a reminder she’ll be close to daily, as she sees you wearing it, and will be opening it for you often in bed. For this and other reasons this is an excellent tool to have. The belt is truly worth an article of its own.

Since most husbands and wives have children around, spanking quietly is a real concern. At a certain point, most spankings will need a quiet instrument. There are a few to choose from. For a while I used the short plastic curtain rods, but it is easy to ruin them that way. Going on advice by other husbands, I purchased a loopy johnny, which is basically a cord which is looped over, perhaps a foot long, and held by a handle. it is actually quite easy to make one of these at home, although you’d need to be careful about the cord you use, as you don’t want one too light, or too heavy. This is an easy instrument to use with her over the knee, and is as quiet as it gets. You may want to make sure she is kept quiet though, as its bite is worse than it looks. In online polls, I’ve seen this listed as one of the hardest instruments to bear. My wife certainly does not like it. I remember once she said the line I think many who are punished with it say — I wish I could take that thing and throw it out the window.

Also going on advice from husbands online, I purchased an instrument to meet the hard end of the punishment spectrum — a paddle. This is one you could make at home with a few tools and some woodworking ability. The paddle is a formidable instrument just to look at, and just the thought of it can make a spanking a fearful thing. The person about to be spanked with a paddle knows what is coming is serious, and it is right to tremble. The one I have is short enough to be used on her while over my knee, but is just as effective with her bent over. If she sees it she knows she has something serious coming. I make sure not to use it all the time, but save it for the most important of occasions.

In past years, I also used the hairbrush to spank. This is an easy handheld tool you can keep around the house without having to hide it. It can sit on a counter or dresser as a regular reminder of your authority in the home. If you want to use it for its normal purpose, your wife will have a reminder of your command every time she brushes her hair. A good strong wooden hairbrush functions like a small paddle, and it is easy to vary the strength, using it for milder or harsher punishments as you desire. It is also very easy to control, and to deliver a swat on the spot you desire. It is the unique and preferred instrument in some marriages.

While I have never used one, you’ll find some who use discipline keep a cane around the home also. This old-fashioned instrument is an the high end of pain, which is why it can function as an instrument to be used for the worst offenses. I have never decided to use the cane, for the very fact that because of its strength and ferocity, it is one small step from causing serious injury, something we should all avoid. If you slipped up with one of these things, used it too hard, or swung hard in the wrong spot, you would deliver not only more pain than you desire, but an injury that could require a long time to heal. For that reason, while I respect its usefulness in some homes, I avoid it. I can already deliver the harsh punishments when needed, and I don’t desire to risk injury just for the sake of extra severity. To me it’s not worth it.

Once you find an instrument you like, you will get into a rhythm of using it. I suggest finding a few that meet your needs, both in terms of strength and sound produced. I recommend having one set aside for the more severe punishments, which is naturally one to dread. Even if you don’t have children it is likely you will have the need to be quiet some of the time, so it’s best to have something to meet that need. However, as you know, you don’t need to purchase any tools t all if you use what you have around the home already. There are a few ready made favorites to choose from. While we’ve talked a little about keeping the instrument quiet, we’ll talk elsewhere about keeping the lady quiet, as this can be trickier than finding a quiet spanking tool. You will be making music on one end, and she will be singing harmony with you.