When I began spanking in marriage, I did not have much use for the tradition of giving a punished wife time in the corner when she is spanked. I appreciated the need for her to think about her deeds, and to await punishment simply by having her wait for her punishment, usually kneeling before the bed. I came to use corner time during most of our sessions through personal recommendations, and because I see the sense in it. I wouldn’t claim it is necessary, and I find my spankings were effective before I started using it, but having her stand in the corner — which is such a classic child’s punishment — can assist in the correction and in her learning.
One common time to have a wife stand in the corner is to await her punishment, but you can also use it after her spanking as a time to let her both calm down, and reflect on the lesson she’s been given. I often use both, but other times will only use it after the spanking. You could choose to use another form of waiting — as I used to have her wait on her knees before her place of punishment — but corner time to many seems more humbling and shameful.
Corner time first can act like a punishment in itself. You will find that many women actively dislike having to do it. It comes with the shame and humbling of having to receive a child-like punishment, and with the shame of nudity, and a bare bottom. She is already being taken down a notch simply by her corner time, and placed in a mindset to better receive discipline. The hardness that caused her bad behavior is being cracked and prepared to be broken. She knows she’s totally subject to her man, even before the spanking starts.
The corner time before her spanking will also give her a chance to think of her wrongdoing. I always instruct my wife to think about her deeds, and why she’s about to be disciplined. She needs to reflect on why she’s ended up there. Understanding her misdeed or her prideful attitude aids her in receiving the discipline in her heart and sincerely desiring real change. She can further deal with the wait, and the dread of the spanking coming up. This is right, since a discipline should instill some fear, and a woman who willfully steps out of line has good reason to fear. I find it that rational dread can function as a reminder at other times, when she knows to stay away from bad behavior because of it, or gets a clearer picture of how wrong her action was. It is easy for the human mind to minimize its wrong, but having to fear a punishment reminds the heart that it is weighty and terrible to do wrong.
My usual time for a pre-spanking corner time is 15 minutes. I am sure there are others who use shorter and longer times. I am typically present, and do some reading while she does her time there. I have instructed her in the beginning what to think about, and I may say a few other words to her about her correction, but I am silent for the most part. She needs to stand, and wait, and think about her situation.
Corner time after the spanking has a somewhat different meaning. Like the one at the start, it may give her time to reflect on what has happened, but I will also instruct my wife to think about her commitment to future behavior. That is something I will talk with her about after she’s done in the corner. Like corner time to begin the session, she is humbled and bare, but this time has to show off to her husband the bright results of her spanking. As her backside is still burning she has to show it to him, in a way then showing her punished and humbled state. This helps her to feel ashamed of getting herself in trouble, and under full command of her husband.
Corner time at the end is also an excellent time for her to calm down for a while. A spanking can be overwhelming physically and also emotionally. It make take a few minutes for her to process things more clearly, and to speak more clearly. This is advantageous, since a spanking usually ends with a good talk, and a good talk should be calm, both for speaking and understanding. I find this especially useful, as before I started using corner time to end the session, I found she was still overly emotional while I finished things. Matters like further instruction, commitment to the future, personal encouragement, and expressions of love could get muddied or lost. I still find this corner time at the end more important to the punishment than the one at the start for that reason.
There are surely other couples who use different forms of corner time, or may even place one in the middle of the session. It may prove useful for reasons beyond what I’ve mentioned here. That’s my experience, and I would recommend at least giving it a try. You can successfully discipline your wife without placing her in the corner, but it can aid you in the areas I’ve mentioned, especially in enhancing her shame and dread of the punishment, giving her valuable time to reflect, and aiding you in ending the session by helping her calm down. Just as being spanked helps humble a woman when her ego has grown too grand, being placed bare in the corner humbles her too, and is your tool in correction.
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