The belt as an instrument of discipline holds a special place in the hearts of many who use it, and even those who receive it. Punishment with a belt carries a unique aura that even those who don’t prefer this instrument will admit exists. Some husbands find it their preferred method of discipline, and find it easily practical at the same time. They may have several hanging in their closet at any time. It is just a strip of leather worn around the waist but it signifies much more.
The belt is a not very subtle communicator of authority or power. Whether it is the fine belt around the midsection of a man who works in business, or the thick, heavy, worn belt of a workman, it signifies something of the man who wears it. His strength. His authority. He may start his day by putting it on, and end his day with taking it off. Punishing with the belt is unique from using other instruments. For one, it is the only instrument worn by the man who uses it. He has it with him throughout the day. His wife can see it on him anytime, seeing both a picture of his authority and the strap with which he can correct her when he desires. The man with the belt literally can speak softly, and carry a big stick.
Various rituals surround discipline with the belt, some of which are unique to its use. For example, when I used the belt regularly, I would often have my wife remove the belt and hand it to me before I strapped her with it. Other times I would be the one to remove it, waiting until immediately before I strapped her, letting her listen to the signature sounds of a metal buckle jangling open, and leather sliding out of its place. These few seconds of memorable sounds tap into the instincts. She didn’t just know what was coming, she could sense it within and respond to it. When she needed to stand in the corner after her spanking, I’d fasten the belt to her waist and let her finish the session that way. We would have our final talk, with the punishment instrument, and a token of my authority, fastened around her bare body. After we finished, she would need to remove it, and place it back on me, sliding it back around my waist and buckling it. .
The belt is in a way more sexual than other punishments. That is because the sight, sound, and feel of the belt are the same sight, sound, and feel as before making love. Removing the belt is associated immediately with coming intimacy, and feeling the power of her man, touching and tasting him. It’s what you hear when the pants are about to come off. She is about to feel him inside. Now it is associated immediately with feeling him closely as well, but in an even more commanding and more difficult way. The link between disciplining a wife, and taking her in the marriage bed, is never closer than this. It is illustrated in the act of removing the belt, which carries excitement with it either way. She is about to be made vulnerable and soft to his command. She is about to show she belongs to him completely.
Correcting a wife with a belt can be done in several ways. Most often, the belt is folded over in half, in a loop, with the buckle and the other end gripped like a handle. Used this way, it should be a tight loop, so it doesn’t flop around and feels solid. Just as with a hand spanking, it can be practiced with a wife over the knee. He can strap her quickly and easily this way. However, this is one of the milder methods, since it’s harder to put much swing and speed into the belt, and it doesn’t deliver the solid contact and sting it does otherwise. It also leaves the blow to fall mostly on one side of her bottom, not giving a balanced delivery of pain. For this reason, when I give a belt strapping over the knee, I go for longer and give more strokes. That makes sure it sinks in.
To fully deliver a fearful punishment with a belt, the man should be able to be standing, and have her bottom at a height easy to swing at with his full arm and shoulder. She could be kneeling on the end of the bed, or placed with her belly on the end of the bed, her bottom propped up on a pillow. It can also be delivered well if she is standing, and bent over holding a stool or the end of a small chair. This keeps her bottom at an easy height, and makes it stick out a little. If a husband is standing, gives her full swing, and straps her up and down her bottom several times in succession, he will deliver a strong and thorough punishment that will leave her in tears. It is also good to be able to take turns strapping from both sides, to better spread out the punishment across the seat of correction. It’s good to take your time with a belt. That’s because it is soft, and can swing a little higher or lower than you’d expect. Slight changes of speed or angle can cause it to land where you did not expect. If I am strapping with the belt, I take steady, deliberate swings. I do not try and rush it, and I make sure I am aiming more or less for a certain spot.
I enjoy the belt for all of these reasons and more. I find it very useful. I also like that it is a household item, and not anything I have to buy as punishment gear. To me, the more gear you buy the more it seems like theater, and punishment is not theater — it is the real thing. In the case of the belt, it is a tool that is always handy. He can, at any moment, take it off, put her right over his knee, and change her attitude around. She also gets a reminder of it every time she sees him during the day, and a reminder every time he unbuckles it to make love to her. Even the belt’s sound in punishment is appropriate to punishment, being sharp and alarming, and loud. The paddle has a low thud. The belt is a trumpet call. Hear the sound of the belt on the bottom over and over and there is no doubt that serious punishment is being delivered.
There are certainly other kinds of straps you can buy or make that would deliver a similar fierce punishment, but they would lack much of what makes the belt unique, especially being an article worn on the body, and visible all the time. A simple strap does not carry the manhood that a belt does. You don’t have to use one, but I recommend keeping at least one thick, wide, leather belt in your closet. Unlike a paddle, you don’t have to hide it somewhere. It will look innocent to most viewers. Your wife will see it, and she will know exactly what it means. Consider these advantages of using the belt. There is perhaps nothing more emblematic of submission as a woman on her knees with her backside in the air, and nothing that pictures discipline as much as a man removing his belt.
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