I wrote an article at the start of this discipline manual on the rooms that spankings usually take place. It’s not a major matter when it comes to discipline, but it’s interesting to see what people choose, and why they prefer one room for discipline rather than another. The bedroom is most common. Others may use a couch in the living room, or an office if there is one. While it doesn’t change too much, the choice of room may come with certain advantages, such as the comfort of the bedroom, or or the more serious nature of an office, or just a room that has more space than the others. Yet spouses occasionally find themselves with little choice of where to practice discipline. That usually is when they are traveling, and have to stay in a hotel. It could be when they are literally on the road, and still find the need to plan a correction. Are there good locations for discipline in such circumstances?
Much of the question with traveling comes down to privacy. Sometimes it is available and sometimes not. I know in the past when I was taking a trip, and needed to give my woman a spanking, I had no problem using the hotel room. I took normal precautions to avoid being loud, but I was not worried about a little noise getting through. In the case of hotels, most travelers figure they will not be seeing the people staying there again, so it’s not a great deal if they aren’t perfectly quiet. Often the people next door at a hotel seem to have the same philosophy. Years before marriage I gave my girlfriend a hairbrush spanking in a hotel room, with our normal rituals at the time. It was comfortable, the sheets are always fresh there, and I got to survey the view of my work through the big square hotel mirror. Later we checked the damage there too. When traveling with my wife soon after marriage, I gave her a maintenance spanking in a hotel room, similarly designed. I gave her a short session over the bed with the belt. There were no problems. If anything, hotels tend to be more comfortable than home, since we do not have the nicest amenities ourselves. If they’re taken care of, they smell nice. They almost all have mirrors.
Is a spanking ever urgent enough to find a way to give one while driving on the road? That will depend on you. If your need is immediate, if you don’t think she should wait for your correction, then treat it as urgent. I have never done it, but I respect the need. In some roads, especially at night, it would not be hard to pull over and simply take care of business on the side of the road, especially if there is a pullover. Off the top of my head I can think of many places nearby you could pull off to the side of the road, or off the road at night, and take care of discipline privately. Naturally, privacy would be easiest at night, unless you happen to know a truly abandoned road. If your wife is misbehaving during a trip, then the need will come up. It would be advantageous to turn around a bad attitude in a moment, simply by pulling over. OR to put an end to it by warning her you will pull over. Some problems are best put in the past quickly, and it is a spanking which does that well.
I’ve heard from husbands who say they practice spanking outdoors when traveling, but in a spot that is entirely private. They don’t want to wait through the longish drive home so they find a spot in nature. You might call it public non-exhibitionism. The intent is not to be seen, but it is always possible since there are no walls. I don’t really recommend trying this, since it sounds like a gamble to me, and anyone could wander by. I’d never do it for that reason. Not that the outdoors aren’t beautiful, or wouldn’t make a good setting for a correction. The private nature of the act simply makes it too much of a risk.
Not everyone will find it comfortable, or possible, to give a spanking during a trip. I understand. The nearness to other people can make things awkward. During some trips there may truly be no privacy. That’s why many couples simply postpone correction until they are back home again. Long wait times aren’t ideal, but you can still use wait time for her benefit. Some husbands might use a non-spanking form of correction during a trip, and then deliver the spanking she earned when they get home. That keeps some continuity going. If the need is silence, those who use capsaicin cream can give a very unpleasant punishment this way. Not all use it, but it’s a practical option while traveling. It’s important to know that on you road you are not completely limited, and can still find a good place to take care of discipline.
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