Ode to My Readers

When I started this website and spanking manual, I did not expect a great number of readers. I thought it would get some attention since spanking is a spicy subject to many people, and because there are plenty of men and women seriously interested in marital discipline. However, I have been overjoyed to see the number of readers grow over time, and the consistent visits they make to this website. I want to thank everyone who comes here to learn, share, and ask questions from the bottom of my heart. I started this to help people and inspire people. The fact you come, means the world to me.

I also must say that readers have been a great help to the website, not only are some of the comments helpful and insightful, but your ideas and your questions each give me inspiration for future articles. While I thought I would have mostly run out of ideas after I churned through most of the spanking basics in a few months, I continue to explore discipline in marriage due to your interactions with me. Whether it is a comment on a page, or an e-mail exchange, your communication is dear to me and helps my work. These days, it probably inspires nearly half of the articles. I could not do it without you.

I am also encouraged by some of the stories I hear from you; the stories of men and women who have improved their marriage because spanking put an end to problems — who go on joyously about the peace that it brought them — as well as those who are still working on it, and use the website to seek improvement. In the less than a year it’s been up, I’ve seen several couples begin spanking in their marriage, or make positive alterations to their discipline, changes which helped them out. I’ve seen younger and unmarried men and women start planning for marriages with discipline, and of course everything else good a marriage contains. I hope the site continues to be not just a spanking resource, but a place of communication and mutual aid. I want to help marriages out there, and I in turn benefit from your shared experiences.

For those men and women still struggling with problems in marriage, I pray for you regularly. For those who want to start with discipline, but have not been able to, do not give up working toward your goal, or having hope in your heart. Repairing a marriage can take time, and even when you do not see that change before your eyes, God is working on you inside, and using that time and that wait to refine you. Keep walking on the path, even if your spouse is momentarily not. The answers are found in Holy Scripture, even when a spouse refuses to put it into practice. There is a simple way with marriage and it works. It is a blessing to all. May you be overflowing with its sweetness and peace.

My gratitude to you all. Whether you are just her to visit, or share your thoughts, or to be a friend, you are appreciated.


16 responses to “Ode to My Readers”

  1. “Your desire will be for your husband,
    and he will rule over you.”

    I notice with great joy that you wives here have this positive attitude.

    This quote comes from Genesis 3:16(!) and what is not very well known is that the Hebrew word for “rule over” includes the possibility of physical punishment and combined with the recommendation from Paul:

    ” Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”

    the picture gets more clear.

    But, of cause that is under normal conditions; the husband is supposedly mentally ok and hasn´t some serious personality disturbances.

  2. The reason I write this is because of the use of hard and heavy instruments for spanking. If the sensation is too chocking it tends to result in blocking the memory of it and there you are; the effect is questionable.

    Here is a little information about this birch bundle made from very thin ends of twigs. If you use this bundle you´ve got a form of correction which gives an intense pain but it nevertheless leaves no marks that don´t disappear in about one day.You don´t have to use much force here – it isn´t necessary, the pain builds up slowly and you can keep up the good work for half an hour for a lasting impression in your wife´s mind. This isn´t cruel at all compared to using a cane which you can use only a very short time and therefore that doesn´t cause the lasting memory effect you want to achieve.
    Have in mind that this birch branch bundle dries very quickly. You can easily soften it by putting it into a big ceramic bowl or anything with hot water. It then becomes as good as new and fresh. I think that these implements that are mentioned here very often are too harsh and nearly cruel! With this natural, silent and free tool one makes the dear wife´s behind get this necessary, intense pain without bruises and scars.
    I strongly recommend a bundle of about ten, very thin branches from a birch tree, for example! A proper length can be about one foot two.

    No noise at all, (at least from the tool), and very effective but still harmless.
    You can normally start up with 20 to 30 slaps with open hand and then use this bundle! If you want to be very silent you of course use this method immediately,
    It is a very mild form of spanking at the beginning but after about 50 lashes it makes a sharp, stinging feeling that can not be ignored. Then you pause for a minute or two and then continue. All of this can and should be done several times but of course it is up to yourselves. Do not forget, during a maintenance spanking, to communicate with caresses and hugs. We love our wives, don´t we!

    1. That’s a useful recommendation. I think I’ve read a few of your comments on other pages. Can you inform readers on how to make one, in case they’d like to try? What kind of tree or plant is actually used for twigs, or does it matter? Take care.

  3. Long Time Practitioner Avatar
    Long Time Practitioner

    Aron, thank you for a great site. It’s good to know that there are others keeping a disciplined home. My 1st wife was very submissive but not as sexual as my current wife. My current wife is very sexual but requires much more discipline to keep her properly submissive. She knew before we were married that she would be well spanked and agreed that it was in her best interest. We have a very good life and are happy. It does work for us

  4. Sergeant Avatar

    This website is full of knowledge and is an awakening for us who live in times like this. Aron, I compliment you not only for the courage but also the will to put out publicly such important views and experiences.

    Some of us who are younger do not understand the great value of order and discipline on all things in life, this was lost not many generations ago as it still possible to see reminiscence of it in the elders and in the portrayed traditional families that lived a life of happiness and peace.

    It is very good to see that there are still people that guard these values, that share them and are willing to go against the degrading norms of nowadays society. Better yet to know this is not fetishised, not a play, but instead a serious way of living, it is inspiring.

    Some say that women can not be brought back down to their place but with love and discipline I believe I can make the one that matters to me be humbled down into the rightful spot a woman should take, even if the road might have a few bumps that’s why discipline is there, to correct and guide the way.

    1. Thank you Sergeant. I’m very honored. I can see you know the value of discipline and the values that shape it. I agree strongly in its power to change.

      1. Sergeant Avatar

        Now that would be a great topic to read: discipline’s power to change.

        I assume that for most women who practice this, most of them are already submissive and willing to take it on. But what to say of the rebellious feminists and unruly women? Discipline can bring them back to the peaceful meek beings, full of joy and compassion that they should never have strayed away from. As my father would say, the hardest flowers to break are those that bloom most beautifully.

        1. I agree. Once you break through that hard exterior, they can show the most heartfelt submission.

  5. You are welcome. While I don’t agree with all of your views, I do find your blog insightful. Additionally, I enjoy reading the comments almost as much as the articles. May I make a suggestion? A discussion question or topic at the end of the posts would be very interesting…

    1. Thank you, Carla. I also stay on certain websites for the interesting comments. I have considered what you recommend — having a question at the end of each article. I am more of an essay or story writer, than a blogger, so that’s how my mind works in composition. However, I can see its possible benefit in sparking more discussion, and may use it in the future.

  6. nicolelinn45 Avatar

    That was so nice Aaronhusband. Thank you. We appreciate you.


  7. Dearest Aron,

    We are the ones who should be thanking you. Since I first discovered your blog a lifetime ago, I’ve eagerly read every word and done my best to become the feminine woman God intended me to be. I am certain that I’m softer, more open and more respectful to the man I love as a result of your teachings. You’ve helped me to see that my desire for a strong hand to rule over me is natural, and I am hopeful for my future marriage. Whereas once I might have been overbearing in my efforts to establish a marriage based on discipline, I know now that I can only gently express my needs to my future husband. I must honor him and uplift him as the leader in our marriage, allowing him to find his own way, and trust that he will give me what I need. I am immensely grateful to have been able to receive such wonderful advice from you and learn so much about the workings of a godly marriage. Blessings to you!

    1. You’re welcome, Sophie. I am very grateful for your kind comments and always happy that I am able to help. You will be a treasure for your future husband.

  8. We all appreciate your blog Aron. It’s great to hear so many different opinions.

  9. Better Lady Avatar
    Better Lady


    Bless you and thank you for your upkeep of this site. It truly is a blessing for me and I’m sure many others. It has provided knowledge and understanding and has given me the courage to make real changes that have had positive results for me, my husband and even others that I interact with in the community. I wish you joy and happiness everyday!

    1. I am very honored you enjoy the site, and that it has helped you in your marriage Thank you! It is worth my time and effort, and I am very blessed by my readers. Peace to you and your family.

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