While the idea had never occurred to me in many years of spanking, the tool of the warm-up spanking is used by some husbands to ease a corrected wife into her spanking, or more specifically to help her bear the harder end of the ordeal. I can’t speak from experience, but a lighter spanking, either with the hand or simply delivered more lightly to start, is supposed to make the punishment easier. Some husbands use them all the time, others use them just for the more severe spankings, that might call for needing to ease into. Others like myself don’t even think about it.
It’s possible a warm-up to discipline would help your routine. If your purpose is to make sure she bears heavier strokes later without as much hardship, and can bear them for longer, this tool may help you. It’s also supposed to lessen the damage to the backside. Apparently the strokes get the bottom prepared to take some punishment. I think some of the effect is also that it gets the endorphins kicked in early too. That by itself allows a harder punishment to pass more easily. A warm-up spanking is usually brief, but it could be any length. She gets hand spanked for a few minutes. Then the belt comes out, or the paddle, and the real hardship starts.
I do not use warm-up spankings, even though I’ve heard about them for some time. I find the spanking process is involved enough, and long enough, that I don’t need to add more to it. I also find that what I’ve done for many years is successful, and there is little need to add to it. A woman facing a spanking is going to have to deal with the pain of it, and there will be pain either way. It won’t be easy. I expect my wife to receive the punishment I give her, and I always have. I will put her over the bed and strap her straight away with my belt. If she’s earned a long one she’s going to accept a long one. A part of her lesson is how unpleasant that is, and needing to learn to face it.
Since I do enjoy giving a spanking by hand, I have started that way occasionally if we have the chance to be alone. We don’t have that chance very often, and I don’t use hand spanking often for that reason. However, I will begin with my hand on that rare occasion we have the house to ourselves, and I need to spank. I like the personal feel of it, and I want her to feel my hand as well, the hand of the one who is punishing her, and who loves her, and who caresses her with it. I won’t give an entire correction with the hand, since it’s too light, so I will move soon to a harder and more dreaded instrument.
A warm-up, which is often praised for aiding the wife in receiving the spanking physically, may at times aid her mentally and emotionally to being focused on discipline, and given over to learning from her husband’s correction. Just as a brisk walk might aid a runner in getting into the run that will soon take place, a lighter spanking may help to place a woman in the right spot mentally. If the lecture or corner time have not done that, being in position and being spanked less harshly can get her mind ready for taking ownership of her wrong, and expressing her regret. A hard spanking does that as well, but this way she may not be overwhelmed with the fear of a harsh instrument, or bracing herself to receive pain. It may ease her into the motions of growing from her punishment, in ways other methods do not. It can warm up both mind and body. Then the final part of the session delivers the harder spanking and full punishment for her wrongs.
There are advantages in the warm-up spanking, I am sure. It may make the session easier for many wives. It may similarly make it easier to give her a longer session. I don’t discourage you from using them, or at least trying them out. You’ll find you can have very successful correction without the warm-ups. Like many aspects of marital discipline, much comes down to your personal tastes and your needs. You might call it a part of the preparation, or a form of mercy in discipline.
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