This is a guest article by Mark, who brought spanking into his marriage after it had started, and during a time of difficulty. Since having difficulty, and introducing discipline some time into a marriage, are both common situations, this is a topic I thought would greatly benefit the readers here, and anyone else who might be in a similar situation. I have made only minor edits to his writing:
Several years ago, my wife and I found ourselves bogged down with work, two young boys, and the challenges of everyday life. The honeymoon phase of marriage had been long gone and we were experiencing considerable difficulty getting along. We were arguing more, having sex less, and slowly becoming strangers. I was at the end of my rope and was very frustrated.
It was at this point that I confided in a close friend who allowed me to vent my feelings. He asked me what I thought the problem was and after some deliberation, I said, my wife argues about everything, she is disrespectful to me, and is almost non-existent in the bedroom. His reply: “have you ever considered giving her a spanking?” I nearly fell off my chair. I was no stranger to being on either end when it came to spankings for punishment, but I had never considered spanking my wife as a form of discipline. He then began to explain the tenets of domestic discipline to me and how it worked. And for the next several hours, I listened intently to my buddy explain what he claims saved his marriage from ruin. I was nothing short of fascinated, particularly when he told me his wife had received her most recent spanking only days earlier. By the end of the night I was exhausted, but somewhat eager to consider whether I could actually employ domestic discipline in my own home with my wife.
I spent the next few weeks scouring the Internet and reading every possible tidbit about domestic discipline. I spoke to other man who spanked their wives and sought their advice. Now before I go on, please don’t think that domestic discipline is just about spanking, it’s much more than that, but spankings are a very important component. It’s much more about husbands taking the lead and teaching their wives to obey their commands and regularly demonstrate submission to her man who lives her, protects her and teaches her. She learns through discipline to better submit to him, and he learns better to lead.
Then came the night when I approached my wife. I don’t think she believed I was serious. I decided to pick five things I wanted to change in our home. These were issues that I felt were related to my wife being either disrespectful, dishonest, or disobedient. I told her that if these new rules were broken that I would be putting her over my knee and teaching her a lesson. To be honest, she seemed intrigued, almost excited to be given such clear-cut guidelines and consequences. We then put the rules away and returned to our normal ways. It was only two days later that my wife started arguing with me. I asked her three times to stop and she didn’t. What followed was her first punishment spanking. I’ll return to that experience later, what I’d like to explain now is how domestic discipline has helped save our marriage.
Through a great deal of time and patience, my wife has learned how to become a submissive wife and obey her man. She has been over my knee many times for some very severe spankings that have left her sore for quite a while. She has spent a great deal of time writing out lines, standing in the corner and on occasion, had her mouth scrubbed clean with a bar of soap. But after all is said and done she has become a most giving and loving submissive wife.
Domestic Discipline has improved the line of communication between us. She understands my expectations of her. She does not argue with me. She obeys my rules. She pleases me sexually and during times of discipline will provide additional gratification to demonstrate submissiveness. We enjoy each other’s company more, laugh more, and spend more time together. Our sons are growing up in a loving, nurturing environment under my lead. My wife is allowed to express her opinion, but knows that I have her final say.
Taking the lead is not an easy thing to accomplish. There were times where I was tired and didn’t want to spank my wife. I have learned that in order for domestic discipline to be successful, a husband must always follow through on his word and spank his wife when it’s necessary. By providing clear expectations, a wife will respect her man and know he means business. Knowing she will have a sore behind if she ignores his command will make her feel secure and taken care of. My wife hates getting a spanking but understands why it’s necessary.
Just as this website suggests, I spank my wife soundly so that she will learn from her correction and improve her behavior. I want her to be very sore for a while for her to remember that she must not demonstrate the inappropriate behavior again. I will make her write the lesson several hundred times to reinforce this and I will make her stand in the corner to feel shame and remorse. My wife receives all of her punishments nude, so as to contribute to her vulnerability and embarrassment, which are key components in the learning process. Finally, my wife is required to perform oral sex on me at the end of a session as an act of gratefulness and submission.
I cherish, adore and love my wife. Domestic discipline has been the number one contributor in the renewed success of our marriage. If you are considering giving it a try, I would strongly recommend doing so.
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