You Might Need a Spanking If . . .

There are many women who know they need a spanking, and they wish they had one coming up. They need little more than to have their skirts tossed up, get thrown over their man’s knee, and spanked on the bare bottom for a while, as they cry out. There’s simply no avoiding this.

There are many reasons why then need a spanking right now. Mostly, I write about the punishment spankings, given to her for breaking the rules and to provide necessary rails on her future behavior. Yet I do not deny the many other less obvious reasons a lady will need a spanking, knows she does, and wants it. Some of these reasons border on punishment, while others clearly are more in line with therapy and sexual release. We can all guess what they are, but I’m going to go over some of the major signs here that mean you might need a spanking.

You might need a spanking if . . .

• You’re beginning to get mouthy and a little attitudinal, and in your heart, you just want to argue. Being quickly stripped and spanked will give you the cure. Mouth will be over. Heart will be content. You will want to serve him on your knees instead of mouth off. 
• You just have a negative perspective, and want to complain about everything. There is foulness in your soul. Once your man bares your behind and gives it a good tanning, you’ll have much less desire to complain, and will be calmed and much more grateful. You will look at that bright red bottom and know that life is good. 
• You are directionless, discontent, and can’t find a thing which interests you. You have become consumed with boredom. A spanking will give you some immediate direction, motivation, remove any distractions, and focus you on what is important. Then you will get right to living life, and you will do it with purpose. 
• You are doing your job in a rather half-hearted way, and just mailing it in, as they say. Such lack of care and borderline laziness can be turned around with a spark of motivation and encouragement. This comes with a little time alone with your man, and his encouraging smacks on your backside. It will train diligence into your soul. 
• You just want to feel your husband’s power and experience his strong body close to yours. You don’t want to give it to him, you just want him to take it, and take it relentlessly. This may already happen when you make love, but it happens powerfully when you get bent over and spanked. It is a major dose of manhood for a lady needing one. For some it ends in passionate sex. Even when it does not, it can seem like a sex act in alternative form. 

Naturally, getting the spanking she needs comes with the man giving his lady a good lecture, and providing some direction in how she needs to behave. The spanking is the biggest and most important part of this therapy session so to speak, but his mind and thoughts need to direct her in what she needs to do. He needs to tell her what to do, give her any needed chastisement verbally, and then give her meaningful activities to fulfill the soul, and which of course will be useful. He needs to communicate his ownership of her. If the spanking is not truly a punishment, it is natural that it’s milder than the punitive kind, even simply a long hand spanking. She still may cry, cry out, and beg, but it’s not severe like a punishment. The tears will cleanse her of the dissatisfaction in her soul. Your strength in correcting your woman will build her up inside, and provide her that inner stability. 

You might think what I’ve listed are some mild reasons for a spanking, and maybe they are. They would definitely increase the number of spankings daily in the world if we acted on them, and not all of them are truly necessary. However, an unnecessary spanking never hurt anyone (at least not in the real sense of the word), and they just may do some good. Considering the number of unnecessary prescriptions for psyche meds, for real meds, and for dangerous addictive drugs, a few unnecessary spankings are not the least bit dangerous. Overall, I believe they will help, because they are therapy in a way, and spanking is a deep act of union between man and wife. That inherently is good. It is a spiritual act just as sex is a spiritual act, and it bonds them both together. 

Some readers will recognize the value in giving a spanking for these reasons aligns with giving a normal maintenance spanking, at least in part. The maintenance spanking helps remind a wife of her place, and keeps her in a good and respectful mode. It may also be used to shore up on any smaller failures in her behavior which do not warrant a punishment. Altogether, some may find that a weekly maintenance over her man’s knee takes care of most of the needs I write about here, as it will speak to her attitude on multiple levels, and bring her the inner peace that she needs. No need to pick up on those subtle cues of inner turmoil if you are placing her OTK weekly to begin with. That said maintenance may miss some of the specific purposes of correction I mention here, whether they are her desire for the erotic charge, or her minor failings, which themselves ought to be spoken to uniquely.

If a woman is dissatisfied, and she is inching into dangerous territory, she may just need a spanking. If she is directionless, and needs his guidance, she just might need a spanking. If she’s giving her man the eye, that’s a good sign too. Stripping her naked and bringing her to tears with the hairbrush is a medicine for many ills. No husband should be without the important marital phrase: Does somebody need a spanking right now?

Feel free to add to my list of reasons in the comments below!