The Real Thing

I write these articles and share them with you as a husband who is experienced with domestic discipline, because I want to help people learn about it, and perhaps decide to use it. Discipline, guiding my wife, correcting her, are all a part of my regular life. There is suspicion though, sometimes, that anyone who writes online could just be making it up. In the world of wifespanking, I think that suspicion is higher than elsewhere. This is in part because some people can’t believe many folks actually practice DD, in part because sometimes rare and fantastic details are involved, and in part because some writers and bloggers actually are fake — either they don’t really live the life they claim, or they are the opposite sex than they claim, or some major falsehood like that. 


I’ve gotten suspicious a few times of bloggers, but I have no desire to prove them either true or false. I’ve had others get suspicious of me, in my interactions online, simply because they heard details that sounded extraordinary to their ears. It is good to have a healthy awareness that some people may be faking it, but it’s not so good to become overly suspicious, or jump on any detail you hear as an example your suspicions are correct. The internet, as it is, unless you are a hacker who can try and track down a blogger’s identity, allows for a degree of anonymity, and allows for some mystery as to whether someone is speaking truth or falsehood. It tends to go  with the territory.


So while I am sure there will always be a few who are suspicious, I want to assure the readers at this site that I am who I say I am, and this writing reflects my lifestyle. I would never go online and invent a fake life, or fake activities. I mean, what an incredible waste of time. I describe wifespanking from my experience, I offer advice from my experience, and at times share details of the discipline sessions I give and what their results are. I am who I say I am. 


That said, I have to add that I do, as a matter of anonymity, change some details. I will not give you every facet of our life, and I will add some details which have been altered. I do that because this subject attracts much animosity, and is commonly attacked. For that reason alone I can promise you that a minor amount of what you read here is not true. The main facets are true, as are my sex, my experience with discipline, and most of the details of my history of correcting women. Some other life details are true. Some are not. 


I hope the average reader will understand, and respect this decision. There may be a few aspects of my experience that sound odd or fantastic to you, but remember, that does not make them false. There are many odd and fantastic things in this world, and some of them happen when I am around. Don’t be too suspicious. I am the real thing.


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10 responses to “The Real Thing”

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  3. ALifeSurrendered Avatar
    ALifeSurrendered

    I’ve read a few DD blogs, and yours was the ONLY one that rang true, for lack of a better phrase. Some felt very much like BDSM fantasy, others were scatterbrained women who spoke of being bratty so their man would paddle them, still others just plain lacked the ring of sincerity. I found your WordPress blog, and it was refreshingly honest, clear and concise without being softcore pornography. Then one day, it was just…gone. That was that, or so I thought, until a couple of weeks ago when I decided to just search the phrase “Spank your wife” and see if the blog was back. And it was, not on WordPress, but here on a dedicated website. I was happy to see you had brought it back, because the concept of marital discipline has been heavy on my mind again of late. Your quiet, calm authority in discussion of the subject brings much more information than the “porn” sites going elsewhere.

    1. I am very happy you found my website, and have found the new one as well. I did write hundreds of people when I lost the old one, but either I missed your e-mail, or I had not been in contact with you. It should not be hard to find my site just by a search for ‘wife’ and ‘spanking.”

      Many blogs out there about DD are run by women, mostly about personal experience, and others definitely are simply fantasy. I am honored to be able to offer something different, with a website oriented towards men, towards clear teaching, and rooted in real life. I do want the material to be practical, and to offer helpful guidance to readers. I also take suggestions for articles, and have written many already based on readers’ ideas.

      Thank you for coming here, Surrendered.

      1. ALifeSurrendered Avatar
        ALifeSurrendered

        I did try to subscribe back then, but it never worked. It was so frustrating. I don’t know if Yahoo blocks content like this or what, but nothing ever came through. My spam folder is filled with tons of marketing trash and still some filthy porn stuff, so I don’t know why domestic discipline would be blocked. Perhaps it is simply because how dare a woman want to subjugate herself to the horrible mastery of a monster of a man! I don’t see it that way, and so I’m very pleased to have been able to get registered with the new Gmail address. I did try to use my other Gmail address before creating this one, but that failed, too.

        1. It is possible that there is some filter against domestic discipline. It is also possible that if you were writing from a server which is associated with spam, that it got automatically blocked for that reason. I am glad you are now able to comment here.

      2. Kruggerand Avatar
        Kruggerand

        Aron, it would be great if you could adjust a setting or find a widget or something that displays more comment history. The best I can find is the 5 most recent on the account dashboard. Thank you .

        1. Hello Kruggerand, I’m not sure what you mean. When I go on to the website, I see all of the comments, with some pingbacks thrown in. All I have to do is scroll down to see the comments.

          1. Kruggerand Avatar
            Kruggerand

            I’m referring to a Latest Comment Block to show on the main page.
            https://wordpress.com/support/wordpress-editor/blocks/latest-comments-block/

            I grabbed a couple random sites that have them:
            https://amateurcookblog.wordpress.com/
            https://weekendkitchenette.wordpress.com/

            It can display up to 15 recent comments.

            Currently I can see recent comments on my account dashboard, but only 5:
            https://www.spankingyourwife.com/wp-admin/

            But, if you clear more than that at a time, or if I’m late getting back to the site, I have a greater chance of missing things. It’s easy enough to catch comments on the most recent post or two, but there’s a high chance of missing comments on older posts.

            Thank you.

          2. I see. That’s a good idea to keep up with comments. I’ll look into getting one for the site. Thanks.

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