Spank Your Wife

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  • Q&A with Aria and Coda of The Disciplined Life

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    Today I’d like to share a Q&A with a married couple who have been practicing discipline for years, and who also have a Youtube channel explaining how discipline works. They are Aria and Coda of The Disciplined Life. I’d like you to welcome them here, and also learn from their experiences. I’ve checked out a…

  • Common Questions about DD Answered

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    How do You Introduce discipline to Marriage? It will always require talking about it. Exactly how you go about that varies depending on whether the man or the woman introduces it. A couple should sit down and establish their roles, which are the man’s authority, and the woman’s submission to him, and commit themselves to living…

  • Why a Husband is Better Than a Dom

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    Many women long to find a husband who will lead and discipline them, and some manage to find one, even if they have to be the one who brings up the topic, and even if they have to encourage their husband to do his role. When a husband leader is lacking, it is tempting for…

  • Training Your Wife

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    While many men view women as wild and uncontrollable creatures, ones who make marriages unhappy, nothing could be further from the truth when a woman has virtue, and when a wife is well trained. The cultural stereotype of a disrespectful or domineering wife does not have to come true, and you can have female gold…

  • How to Give a Good, Sound Spanking

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    You might not know it, but despite the popularity of spanking, and the edgy pop culture BDSM world, there are men who have little idea of how to give a spanking to their wife. Some of them have never experienced one growing up, or it was so many years ago, when they were little, that…

  • Spanking Instruments Around the House

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    The average couple might invest in a few special spanking instruments which you have to order, those obvious ones like a paddle, cane, or loopy. Yet with minor amount of creativity, one can take care of nearly any spanking need with household items that nearly everyone has. They are innocuous enough. They lie around without…

  • When He Wants to Take Her the Back Way

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    When discussing sex in submission I’ve mostly written much on what a man should do, or can do, in using sex to teach his wife submission. I’ve gotten into a number of specifics physically. I also have to bring up a few things he should not do with her, and this includes taking his wife…

  • How Common is Domestic Discipline?

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    There are those who try and paint spanking as a fringe practice, or at least one that is uniquely for erotic purposes. They think it is either abnormal or kink. While its popularity appears to be rising, spanking can be easily misportrayed because of the very fact that many people who do it are private…

  • Can the Unbeliever Learn about Discipline from the Christian?

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    I know there are some people who feel radically uncomfortable about going on a Christian spanking site, because they don’t agree with some Christian beliefs, or find them very odd. They still read articles. They continue to come. However, there can be a disconnect on certain subjects. A few may reject learning from these sites…

  • What is Spank Your Wife?

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    I’ve been surprised and very gracious at the number of visitors I’ve had at Spank Your Wife, including those who sincerely want to learn, and improve their marriages. I’ve also been greatly blessed to correspond at length with some of you. For first-time visitors though, it still may be unclear the overall purpose of the…

  • Instrument Ratings

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    There is only so much to say about the instruments used in spanking. I have given a general overview of instruments before, and written a number of different instrument highlights, including on the belt, the paddle, the loopy, and the cane. I’ve written on hand spanking before as well. I write this piece as a…

  • She Did a Very Very Bad Bad Thing

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    Is there a special way to deal with the worst of infractions? How should a husband respond to a wife’s truly terrible behavior? It makes couples wonder, even if they both hope they never need to face such a situation, or are confident that they never will. Does a husband need to reinvent punishment? Does…

  • Is Spanking Only for Macho Men?

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    Since authority and discipline are matters which involve such strength, it is easy to imagine that men who command their wives, and correct them with a spanking, are the macho type of males. It draws to mind the stronger, or obviously assertive men. Some men have a knack for telling others what to do and…

  • What Got You Started?

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    These are some things I hear from men and women who want discipline in their home, or who have already started it. I hear many of the same factors at work in starting discipline: My wife has been disrespectful to me our whole marriage, and she won’t do what I say. Maybe spanking will help…

  • Taste of the Cane

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    Let me introduce another guest article by Mark, who is writing today about use of the cane in discipline. As with other guest articles, I’ve asked him to write on subjects I do not have hands-on experience with. I have never used the cane for discipline and he has. By all accounts of spanked wives,…

  • Managing Your Discipline Session

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    Spanking is not the only thing that needs to be firm when guiding your wife. Spanking is the first thing people think of, and it is the act that mostly makes up the punishment, but a husband’s guidance, both during a punishment and in daily instruction, needs to be both firm and clear. A weak…

  • The Use of Restraints

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    The field of wife spanking comes with some common rituals that occur in the large majority of households. When it comes time for a punishment, it is typical for the wife to place herself over her husband’s lap (after undressing of course), or to bend herself over the bed, or a sofa. She remains in…

  • DD Practices I Do Not Use [PART 2]

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    Part 1 of this topic covers: Counting Strokes, Journaling, Pleasure Denial and Control, Back Door Training, and Safe Words The Cane: While it’s not the most common instrument, more than a few husbands discipline their wives with a cane. For some it is an instrument kept only for the worst of offenses. The rest of…

  • Tenderbutts and Domestic Discipline

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    There is a phenomenon in domestic discipline I’ve wanted to write about for a long time now. I call that phenomenon: the Tenderbutts. If you haven’t met them yet you will. No, it’s not wives with very sensitive bottoms. It’s not even people who love a more sensitive brand of wife spanking. It is those…

  • Wife Spanking vs. BDSM

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    When discussing wife spanking in its various forms, someone always asks whether this is the same kind of thing as BDSM, which most people recognize as the whips n’ chains thing. How is this differentiated from the well-known persona of the leather world, or dungeons, or people who sign slave contracts? To tell you the…

  • Safe Words and Marital Spanking

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    I believe in basic safety when practicing discipline. However I am not a big supporter of the use of the “safe word.” The safe word, which is ubiquitous in the bdsm world, and which can be found less commonly in marital spanking, is a word a wife can say if a spanking is getting too…

  • That Really Hits the Spot

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    A spanking is given on a woman’s bottom. It is not for anywhere else. Corporal punishment can conjure up images of civic punishments such as flogging, or as medieval experiences like you can see in the leather crowd, but marital spanking just uses the bottom as the place of punishment. If you get very far…

  • Welcome and Learning Discipline

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    Welcome. This is a website devoted to teaching marital discipline, or wife spanking as some call it. I hope to provide advice, instructions, and knowledge about how to use spanking in your marriage relationship. I will draw from personal experience and many years of using discipline in the home, but it is not a personal…

  • Why Use Discipline?

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    I want to expand on what I mention in my introduction — why do I use domestic discipline and why do I recommend it to others? Or to drop the contemporary lingo, I’d like to explain why it’s good to spank your wife. I want to get into the benefits. Let me talk a little…