My Spanking Instruments

I’ve written hundreds of articles about discipline in marriage and never included pictures. I thought I’d change that habit for this article about the instruments I use to give a spanking. Instead of giving generic photos, I’ll give you actual ones of the tools I use to correct my wife. All the tools in these pictures have seen plenty of action. These are the four most common instruments I use below:

The Belt

The Paddle

The Loopy

The Rope

These four are all standard spanking tools I use. Once in a while I do choose a different instrument, and in the past I used others as well, but these are the enforcers of the current age. I hope the photos give you a better picture of discipline in our marriage, and offer a few ideas for instruments you could use as well.

This is where the rubber meets the road, or the strap meets the behind, when it comes to correction. These tools get the job done. A lady does not want her behind to meet one of these attitude adjusters. If these instruments had ears to hear and eyes to see, they could sing a song of tears and sorrow, and one of love and affection as well. They have heard a great number of apologies over the years. They have inspired the wife to promise to be good. The sight of them has caused her many times to wish she had chosen to behave better, gotten her work done, or been more respectful. These tools are as useful as a reliable automobile, a well-tuned violin, and the latest speedy computer. They change history better than the printing press.

The simple fact that I use them, and I use them thoroughly, assures I don’t have to use them too often. My belt remains on. The paddle stays in the closet. Getting a session with one of them is something to fear. My wife knows I am not shy about subjecting her bare behind to them, and subjecting it at length, so she is easy for me to manage. She listens to me if I have to give her a warning or verbal correction. She is ashamed if she ends up in the position to receive them. Good behavior keeps her out of trouble.

I have had the rope for quite a few years. I don’t use it that often, but it’s handy. Like the belt, it is a regular household item. The rope is soft on the outside, but weighty and thick, and it whips around at the end, easily catching the hip. It’s quiet, but not as much so as the loopy. The paddle and loopy are easy to find online, but if you’re handy you can make them at home. The paddle is my go-to instrument for a more severe spanking. The belt I have to replace every several years with a new one, and I prefer leather to the artificial material. The one pictured above is not the only one I have, as I’ve probably got four or five others in the closet for work or for dress, but that’s the one I mostly use for spanking. It’s a work belt and it does the job.

All my instruments are long enough to cover her behind fully. I suppose it helps she’s not overweight though. Their musical quality ranges between a whisper, a smack, and a bang. As I’ve noted before, the loopy is my most common instrument, because it is the quietest. It is lightweight, but a long session with the loop will leave the bottom sore for days. However, with enough use, I believe it will eventually have to be replaced. The paddle will last forever. The rope is soft, but when used with strength it will leave the bottom a variety of different colors. Despite their differences, any single one of these instruments will provide the punishment and behavioral change I need to deliver.

I’m not going to include a picture of my hand, but that’s in the mix too. I just use the hand for the occasional OTK warmup, and then switch to the instrument for the rest of the punishment. In the past in our marriage, and before I was married, I have used a few other tools, such as the blinds rod, the riding crop, and the hairbrush. These take care of all my disciplinary needs right now, and will bring tears and regret to the lady. No husband should be without them.


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10 responses to “My Spanking Instruments”

  1. LindatoBehave Avatar
    LindatoBehave

    Well, not sure I like seeing this post because it just gave my husband an idea I am not happy about. I really think my husband’s hand, the paddle and/or his strap is bad enough when warranted.

    After reading this, my husband announced that he will be getting a Loopy. It looks like something that would really sting bad and to have him try it makes me cringe at the thought.

    I am hoping that once he gets his Loopy and tries it, that will be the end of it.

    1. Hello Linda, I’m glad to be such an inspiration. The loopy does sting badly if it’s the right kind, and can give a harsh spanking when necessary. It’s main convenience is that it is quiet. I don’t believe it would be any harsher than what you have felt before.

  2. That is quite a collection! Though I have taken the belt a time or two, my husband says he prefers to use his hands. He feels the Lord is better at guiding his hand to discipline me than another instrument. I have to say I’m not sorry about that 😉

    1. Thanks, Darcy. I think most women would prefer to be spanked by hand than with an instrument, unless their husband has very leathery hands. In those cases it can feel the same. I’m sure my wife would prefer it too! The hands are also more personal. I actually prefer spanking that way, but for the sake of giving a harder punishment, I always use an instrument.

      1. Oh my gosh yes. I have asked for his hand and he will reply that for the severity of what I’ve done I am getting either the belt , the bath brush or the dowel rod which is used like a cane. The hand is also very intimate where I feel more connected with hubby.

        1. Thanks for your comment. I had to look up dowel rod, since I don’t know what that is. That looks quite solid and painful as a spanking instrument. Sometimes it does take something harsh to teach the necessary lesson, which will instill the seriousness of the wrong. I can understand why you’d ask for the hand though.

  3. Great blog post. I love the pictures, they bring it alive. I found the comment, “I’m not going to include a picture of my hand, but that’s in the mix too.” I literally laughed out loud. The Johnny Loop looks scary.
    Hubby and I have implements but they have to be normal things. Because I never want to have to explain to the kids. Of course his belt is normal. The Wood spoon wont raise an eyebrow anywhere. Bath brush is a great substitution for a wood paddle.

    I wrote this in a blog post called, “Implements Hidden in Plain Sight” https://lisaspanking.blogspot.com/2025/11/implements-hidden-in-plane-sight.html

    1. Thank you. That bath brush sounds like it could be very harsh. I enjoy using instruments around the house as well, even though I own some specialized ones too. The large wooden hairbrush is like a mini paddle itself.

  4. LindatoBehave Avatar
    LindatoBehave

    Thank you so much for sharing your blog, lisa82. I will revisit and hope to learn some things from you, for sure. I am intimately familiar with the wooden spoon. Similar to the wooden spoon, we have a Swiss Knorr spoon, which is more like a larger spatula. I think it is worse than the spoon because of the mixing end being flat and having more surface area. I have gotten a real blistering from that.

    1. Oh my gosh we have that too. I did not know it’s name. It is wicked. When I see hubby going into the kitchen while I am told to wait for him. I hold my breath and pray he doesn’t grab that monster. Ha Ha.

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