I’ve written about possibly the most loved spanking position — that of over the knee — and I want to discuss what may be the most common position, and also beloved by many. That is the position of bent over, in all of its many wondrous varieties. Spanking positions do not change anything substantial about discipline, but they can vary depending on your preference, and may be more or less convenient and practical depending on your needs. I believe being bent over meets many of those needs, which is why it is so common. It also can uniquely accomplish what some other positions do not.
While there are many varieties of bent over, all of them share a few things in common. The position itself is deeply submissive, I believe more so than otk is. Kneeling and putting her bottom in the air is a sign of surrender. It shows her bottom belongs to her man, and she he is in charge. Being bent over also carries obvious sexual connotations, since it is a common position for sex, and because her sexual areas are on display for her man. Being bent over, whether while kneeling or standing, is also a form of reverence to one who is before you. So while a wife may be showing surrender by placing her bottom in the air, she is also bowed before her man if he comes and stands before her. She is honoring him by her position, especially that position which is more deeply bowed. Many women find this physical experience helpful. It instills a sensation of deep submission simply to place herself there, a feeling which accentuates her correction, and helps her learn. It places submission on her heart. This is especially so if she is fully prostrate, her shoulders touching the bed, or whatever furniture she is lying on. Kneeling with her face to the bed she knows she is giving up herself, so that her man may take her completely.
The most common bent over positions I use during discipline is over, or on the end of the bed. I will have my wife bent over with her belly on the edge of the bed, and her legs hanging off of it, sometimes with a pillow beneath her, raising her bottom. I will also have her kneeling on the end of the bed, and in prostration. If I desire, I make sure her shoulders are touching the bed, and I also assure that she is not leaning forward, but keeping her bottom raised. Less commonly, I will use standing bent over positions. I have had my wife standing and bent over the foot of the bed, also with her shoulders down. Alternately, I’ll have her standing, and holding the seat of a chair or a stool.
Bent over positions do not have the same comfort level which otk has, nor are they as cozy and intimate. There is a feeling of formality about them, even as there is a level of sexuality about them. There is space between the man and wife during this punishment. There is no personal touch, unless he chooses to stroke her. It also takes more positioning than otk, as the wife needs to arrange her body as her husband instructs her, often needing to make adjustments to the angle she is bent, to how high her bottom is, or to where her feet are planted, if she is standing. It may be a little bit uncomfortable placing herself as he expects. She does more to cooperate with the discipline that way, and has more instructions to follow as to her body. Her positioning becomes a minor facet of her correction itself, and she must keep it the entire time. Simply positioning herself as her husband desires helps reorder her attitude in the right way. It’s a practice in obedience.
Having a wife bent over for punishment is also a practical position when it comes to giving a spanking. It usually allows her bottom to be at a level which her husband can conveniently deliver strokes to. That allows him to deliver strokes forcefully and to aim with precision. He may use his full swing, since he is standing up, including his torso and shoulder. It further allows for the longer instruments which otk makes difficult to impossible. He can more easily correct her with his belt, although this still requires care with aim. He may easily punish her with a cane this way. The short hard instruments are equally as good with the lady bent over as with her otk. Any large paddle is easy to use, and the small paddle works here too.
Another advantage you will discover is facilitated by the distance which the position allows. That is the husband’s ability to take a few steps around. He may take steps over to the other end of his woman and speak to her more closely. He may even look her in the eye. He may wish to focus on the lecture for a while, in front of or beside his wife, so that she spends time on verbal interaction, and only later return to her backside to finish correcting her. Striding back and forth behind her will also allow the man to deliver strokes from either side of her backside, spreading the force of the spanking around better, and equally on each side.
There are more varieties with bent over positions you can try. It is up to your preference to find what is best for you, whether it is a position you simply enjoy, or one which is most practical. You can be sure in any spanking marriage there are a few pieces of furniture which are regularly used when a wife needs to bend over and be corrected, and just as a husband’s belt may remind a wife of his authority, a common place of spanking will do the same. Whatever item is strong enough and of the right height can be used to spank a wife bent over. It is a position which makes it easy or a husband to correct her, and which can teach submission by her physical posture. She presents her bottom to be punished and bows down.
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