Spanked for Speeding

Occasionally I have to give a spanking for something I never thought I would have to. I trust my wife in her behavior, although I know a few of her common weaknesses. I rarely have to worry about anything else. It saddened me then to learn she had gotten a speeding ticket, and with children in the car. Naturally, some going above the speed limit is normal, and nearly everyone does it. If a cop is handing out tickets for going a small amount above the speed limit, then he is just making easy money for the state. I would not be prepared to punish my wife for this, and would instead just warn her to stay below that in the future. It would still be basically normal driving. However, after some questioning, and after a few attempts to verbally dodge it by my wife, she finally admitted she was going well above the speed limit, in a range no one would find acceptable. The officer was not just making easy money for the state. He was doing a good public service with the ticket. Soon I would do mine.

Correcting a wife for dangerous behavior is a great help to her. It protects her, the family, and anyone who might be harmed by it. A spanking for speeding ought to be on the hard end of spanking. Its lesson should never be easily forgotten. For this reason, I made sure we had time alone in the house to take care of her correction. When she came home, I had her undress, and come to the basement to meet me. I had laid out for her on the coffee table a list of questions to answer in writing, and next to it, the wooden paddle. Of all the instruments I use, I keep the paddle around to correct the more severe bad behavior. I know she was nervous about our meeting, and it took her some bravery to accept her punishment. 

“Sit down at the table now, and answer the questions I wrote for you. You are going to get a hand spanking, and then the paddle today.” She sat down on the couch, took up the pen, and began reading them. She had not seen the paddle sitting out in years, and it must not have been easy to do her work next to it.

Her assignment included answering a few obvious questions about her behavior: Why do we have laws against speeding? What led you to speed? What harm came from your speeding? What other kinds of harm can happen when people drive dangerously? Do you understand that you earned this punishment? Is a spanking worse than the possible consequences of speeding? 

My wife read carefully, and wrote out her answers for me. When she was done, I had her come sit opposite to me on a wooden chair, and answer the questions. She read her answers, and I added a few follow-up questions. She understood well that she earned what was coming, and she understood it was serious. She knew I was displeased with having to pay the ticket on top of that. When her assignment was done, I began first with a hand spanking. 

“You can come right here, sit right here, and get over my knee.” She sat down on the couch beside me, and as I patted my knee, she leaned over and lay herself over my lap. I adjusted her waist and her legs to my liking and began. 

“Do you know that you earned this?”

“Yes sir,” She replied. 

I began spanking her bottom hard and fast.

“I am very disappointed in your behavior, I expect you to drive safely, I expect you to be safe when the children are in the car, and I don’t ever want to see that from you.”

“That behavior is not acceptable,” I said firmly, and continued in a long series of sound swats on her behind. “You earned every one of these.” Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. 

I paused her spanking briefly to speak with her in silence.  

“Are you sorry for what you did?”  

Yes, sir.” 

“Are you sorry for your dangerous driving?” 

“Yes sir.”

My spanking continued as I lectured. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. “You should be very sorry . . . and you will be more sorry.” 

“I am responsible for you, and I am not going to allow that. I am not going to allow you to do that . . . You are my wife, and you are going to face the consequences of that. For putting the children in danger, and for the ticket, that I am going to pay . . . You earned this,” I lectured, spanking throughout, the claps like a loud metronome keeping the beat. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. “You better learn this lesson tonight.” 

More spanks rained down continually on her bottom as she must have been wondering when it would end. My palm was growing warm and tingling from continual collisions with her backside, and my shoulder growing sore. I continued swinging with strength, as her backside reddened. 

“Do you know who you belong to?” “Yes, sir.” “Who do you belong to?” “You, sir.” “Who do you obey?” “You, sir.”

She let loose and began to sob as I spanked her. “That little butt belongs to me.” I paused again for a moment to let her listen in quiet. “And I don’t accept that from you. And I will not ever accept that from you. Do you understand?” 

She started sniffling. “Yes, sir.” 

“You will not do that again,” I commanded her, and I returned to spanking her bottom fast, my shoulder and elbow working mechanically and relentlessly to bring home the stinging swats. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. 

 “You are my woman. You have to follow my rules. You have to be safe, responsible, and obey your man. Do you understand?” 

“Yes, sir,” she answered, gasping, and barely audible. “Do you understand?” “Yes, sir,” she replied louder this time, and crying. 

I ended the hand spanking there.

“Okay,” I told her. I let her lean back up from over my knee and walked her towards the end of the couch. “Stand right here by the couch. Right here. You come, and you bend over.” She stood before the side arm of the couch, about a foot away from it, and bent over slowly, until her head and elbows were resting on the couch. I picked up the paddle, and examined her position. 

“Straighten up. Straighten your legs up.” She got her legs straight, bringing her bottom higher up in the air, and out. 

I tapped her bottom a few times with the paddle, then swung and delivered a hard stroke. She gasped as it landed. I brought down another harder one, and she begins to bawl. Then a third, and she cried out loud again.

“How do you need to drive?”

“Safely, sir.” She sniffled. 

A hard smack with the paddle. Another gasp as it landed on her bottom. Another smack. Then another. Then another. She let out a small grunt with each proceeding bang of the paddle. 

“You are responsible for the children’s safety when they are with you, do you understand?” 

“Yes, sir,” she said, sniffling and breathing deeply. 

I took another swing, which landed with a bang. She bore it with a grunt. Smack. Smack. Her tears were rolling out now. 

“You earned that, with your behavior. You going to obey the law in the future?” I tapped lightly three times on her behind. 

“Yes, sir,” she answered again, sobbing. 

A hard smack. She sobbed. Another one. Stripes were beginning to appear on her raised bottom, and a red blotch on one side. 

“Are you listening to your husband?” 

“Yes, sir.”

Smack. She cried out, sobbing again. 

“Are you going to learn the lesson?” 

Gasping for breath, and breathing heavily, she blurted out, “Yes, sir.” Then she continued crying. 

I brought the paddle way back and swung it down. Smack. 

“Who does that butt belong to?” 

She gasped. “You, sir.”

“That is correct.” 

Smack. “You need to be safe,” I said as she cried freely again. “And responsible.” Smack. 

I tapped her bottom with the paddle lightly again a few times. “You going to be a good girl from now on?” “Yes, sir,” she managed through tears.  

Smack “Am I going to catch you speeding again?” 

“No, sir.”

I gave her several taps, then brought the paddle way back. Another hard smack made her cry out loud. “You going to be safe around the children?” 

“Yes, sir.” 

Smack. Smack. Smack. Smack. “Oh,” she cried out. “Oh.” “Ah.” Then she continued bawling. 

“I do not ever,” Smack.  

“want to see that,” Smack, to the sound of her welling tears. 

“from you,” Smack. “Again . . . Do you understand?”

“Yes, sir.”

A loud smack. She was crying continually. Smack. Smack. She cried out sharply at the last bang of the paddle, and continued to bawl, and sniffle. 

“Okay,” I said softly. “You can stand up.” I leaned her body up from its position bent over the couch, as she continued to sniffle. “You can take that over to the corner,” I said, handing the paddle to her, which she took in her two hands, still sniffling. 

“You stay there for fifteen minutes in the corner, and hold that. Think about what you have done, and how you are going to behave.”

She approached the corner holding the paddle, and waited until I was ready to deal with her further.  

I returned to the couch and sat reading for a while, as she calmed herself and gathered her thoughts. When I felt she would be ready to speak, and to receive further instruction, I had her come over. She came before me carrying the paddle, and lowered herself to her knees. 

“I know you had a hard lesson today,” I told her. “That is because you needed it to be hard.” I had my wife give her promise that she would never drive dangerously again. She explained how she would avoid it, by being away of the speed she was going, looking at the speed limits, and following the law. I then had her say “Thank you for the guidance,” which she managed, still holding back a few more tears. “What you had today was hard, but you could have faced much worse from driving like that,” I reminded her. 

“You can hand me back the paddle.”

She presented me the instrument with both of her hands, which I took and set beside me. Then I assured her that I still loved her, and that I had great confidence that she would do it right from now on. I never stop loving her, even when I correct her. I placed my hands on her waist, and she followed me up to sit on my lap, where I held her for a while, and kissed her forehead. Later she went back upstairs and got dressed, and we continued with our day, which was a lovely weekend day, which we enjoyed.

Afterward, in assessing the spanking I’d given her, my impression was that it could have been harder, considering the seriousness of what she did. Some of the paddle strokes in particular I thought were not hard enough. However, I believe it did accomplish its goal, in that she was truly remorseful, and bore a very difficult spanking. It was hard for her to go through. The correction will function well into the future to help her see the seriousness of that kind of driving, and to remember the consequences. As always, she was very gentle and soft after being spanked, which I saw in the coming days. It did the job, but as her husband, I hope I do not need to correct behavior so serious anytime soon, and will be able to leave the paddle in its place. Other families who are on the road will receive benefit from this public service as well, as they know the roads will be a little bit safer now. 

NOTE: This discipline description was based on an audio I made of the spanking itself. Other parts are recreated from memory, but the spanking itself is exact in its representation.


Comments

18 responses to “Spanked for Speeding”

  1. Hi Sir, I had tears in my eyes and could feel the tingling as I was reading this. I recalled the time I had to confess I received a ticket for using my cell phone (texting) while driving. I was driving and swaying so I was pulled over. Not only I got the lecturing I needed but the spanking that I needed too. I think I even got more smacks (welts) than your wife. But it worked as I now keep the phone out of my hands while driving. I never want to put myself in that position again. I was very sorry (and very very sore) indeed. I also loss the use of the phone (allowed to carry for emergencies only) and car for a month.

    [edited by Aron for content]

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      It is a very serious offense, and a punishment should aim to make sure it never happens again. The spanking needs to be severe enough to be effective. I am sure you will remember now.

  2. Confused Avatar

    I don’t have a lot to say, except a couple things. 1. It’s evident you care about your wife. 2. That description is enough to make ME want to be more mindful of my driving habits. 🤭

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Thank you. That is just what I hoped for from the article.

  3. You’re really kind to let her lie over the couch. I have to hold my ankles because I’m supposed to “fully participate.” He says “it’s your spanking that I’m doing for your benefit so you can help and not just lie there”

    I hate it but I have to admit it keeps me from zoning out after the first minute when I’ve gone a little numb

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Thank you for your comment, Lily. I have heard that some husbands use that strategy when giving a spanking. I’m glad it’s proven useful for you. In general, I keep the position fairly comfortable, and the spanking quite hard.

  4. Sally888 Avatar

    What if your husband is the one who got the speeding ticket with kids in the car?
    What should his response be to his wife?

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Hello Sally, Thanks for your comment. If the husband got a speeding ticket, he is responsible to the higher authorities, who are the officers and the law. He should recognize his mistake, and also apologize for it, making a point never to do it again.

  5. trulyaway Avatar
    trulyaway

    I notice you said that you wondered in retrospect if you spanked hard enough. I’ve had this happen to me sometimes.

    Recently, I gave my wife a spanking for saying something inappropriate. Later, I was thinking that I still was not satisfied that the spanking was hard enough to match the crime so the next day I informed her that in addition to her spanking she was going to be grounded all weekend. She was mad because she had plans Friday night and argued with me. I gave her another spanking for arguing with me and I insisted upon my ruling.

    I haven’t told her this, but I’ve been doubting myself since thinking maybe I was supposed to forgive her after the original spanking and it’s not fair to tack on additional punishments. What do you think?

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Hello Truly, I generally stick to what I plan on from the start. Making too many alterations, especially a second punishment, may confuse my wife, and cast doubt on other future punishments. The only exception may be if she really showed a bad attitude during discipline, in which case she may earn a second one.

      As far as your discipline situation, I would only advise you to trust your judgment. It really is a judgment call for the husband to make, and since you have already made alterations, I would not make any further ones. Just trust in yourself. Over time with experience you will find where that spot of proper severity is when giving a punishment.

      I hope that helps.

  6. Natalie Avatar

    I drove past a red light, and then tried to hide the ticket from my husband. He found out and spanked me with a belt so hard. I was sobbing so much, and I was sore for days.
    I try to obey my husband always and I am submissive to him. This taught me to be very careful while driving.

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Hello Natalie, Thank you for your comment. It’s not an uncommon failure, but I know you will be more careful next time. A sound spanking is a very good reminder into the future. Equally important is that you are honest with your husband from now on, and do not hide things from him.

      1. Hi Aron. Yes, it stood out to me that your wife tried to hide the ticket from you. If she had been more forthcoming would you have gone easier on her?
        It’s hard to be honest when you know you’re going to be punished anyway but at the end of the day honesty keeps our hearts connected and open to one another which I guess is more important than whether or not a punishment still needs to happen. Or, better to be punished in a place of connection than to be punished from the point of disconnection.
        Anyway, you didn’t seem to address the attempt to conceal in your transcription of the event. Did you talk about it before you got to the basement? Side question: I can’t help but wonder, did your wife know you recorded this and transcribed it? That might feel somewhat humiliating, but I suppose a husband might do such a thing and include it as part of the punishment.

        1. aronhusband Avatar
          aronhusband

          Hello Cresta, Thanks for your comment. My wife did not attempt to hide the ticket, but she was for a time hiding the speed she was going. I addressed this issue briefly with her, apart from what I describe here.

          I don’t think it affected the punishment much, which I had designed for the whole infraction. It was a pretty severe punishment, but it could have been harder. I understand there is pressure to not be entirely honest sometimes, especially when it would be so easy to hide something under the rug. It is not easy to face a punishment.

          My wife did know I was recording the session, and she knows that I post discipline descriptions from time to time. I will post some of her writing about being a wife coming up, though she is not a fast writer. I think you will enjoy it.

          Take care.

          1. Aron, I would eagerly read anything written by your sweet and loving wife, and I’m sure your other readers would as well. Please share our encouragement and best wishes with her as she thinks about how to share her experiences under your care.

          2. aronhusband Avatar
            aronhusband

            She is working on it, Sophie, but it will be a while before I post it. I will definitely share your encouragement with her. Thank you very much.

  7. Thank you for this article, I am proud that so many ladies support your point of view. As you know Aron, I often recommend your site to couples; especially wives who know they need spanking or correction by their husband’s. I suggest that wives read first and if they agree with you – have your husband read many of your articles .

    One of my online friends that has taken my advice had a very positive post on another site. Her response was to this question. (I am so proud of her answer). Can you show a vid of you spanking your wife?
    Aron answered: “I would not show a video, no. That is because spanking is a very intimate act, and my wife is undressed when she is spanked. That is for her husband’s eyes only.”

    Then Alanna answered this: “I agree, it’s a private act that holds a special value to you as a couple. I appreciate your respect for your wife and your marriage.”

    Then Alanna also said: “Your description of your wife’s speeding ticket gave me the chills. I’ve never gotten a moving violation ticket, but I didn’t wear my glasses when driving a few months ago and my husband had the same response with an incredibly similar lecture. I hope after reading your article, more people do what I didn’t and think of the consequences and potential harm before making such a common, but careless mistake”

    As Alanna and I discussed this regarding other ladies, This was said: “I definitely think that even small violations of the law are serious and deserve a spanking. But speeding especially because it’s a higher danger.” More couples need to follow your advice, for sure.

    1. aronhusband Avatar
      aronhusband

      Thank you for supporting my work, Jelena, It is always appreciated. I do my best to reach men and women with these teachings about marriage, and it helps to have friends like you sharing my work with others.

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